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unenforceable - That's a good start
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Kamran - Why would you allow your girl to have a male personal trainer in the first place? You are responsible for this not in the sense that you are to "blame" or that she isn"t guilty and deserving of a serious thrashing but Men are responsible for letting their women run free like this. My wife takes French lessons and when I found out that the prospective teacher was a man I just said no.
I dont understand why American males dont just say no to nonsense like this? Do they think you have to be Muslim to control your woman?
I strongly contested it believe me. It was so cliche I can't believe she was gullible enough to let it happen. After a while I felt maybe I was just being insecure about it but I guess I wasn't. I strongly believe if you want some easy top notch pussy you should either be a DJ, personal trainer, Club promoter or a celebrity of some type. No can defend. I'll probably avoid American women from this point on, because when you have an objection to anything they cry that you're being "controlling". Rightfully so. It's 5:48 here on the East coast and I can't sleep. I don't know if it's the long workout plus the shit ton of vitamins I took with my meal or if the situation has anything to do with it but I'm about to say fuck it and get up and go back to the gym.
Bingo! Avoid American women. I agree with this...sure fuck'em but fuck marrying them or having feelings for them.
No, it isn't.
"I can't believe she was gullible enough to let it happen".
She isn't gullible, and the trainer isn't some predator. She is an adult who made a conscious decision. She made the decision, OP had issues with it, they took a "break", got back together, all the while she carried on the relationship with him.
He didn't trick hewr into it, she entered into it a willing participant.
It has nothing to do with what continent she is from.
The OG mantra of finding a poor girl from another country is a joke at best. There are several OGers who have been taken advantage of by foreign women, lol. It is a game they play, and the U.S. is full of men that are suckers who believe they can land a 9 when they are a 5 just because they are American, and comparative to their homeland are wealthy.
For the love of god, this.
Don't believe their lies.
She was talked, coerced, or forced into it?! That's rape, nigga. Even then, once you do some digging you find out even that was a complete lie. They were almost always, ALWAYS, willing participants.
I've had to sit there and listen to a close female cousin of mine rationalize cheating on her long-term boyfriend (now husband...lol poor bastard), while my own cheating ex tried to pile on. I already knew, and was finally able prove it a few months later but this was great to see - as they all behaved exactly the same way. Cousin was bawling her eyes out in the bar and I sat there stoic, until she admitted she royally fucked up. Ex tried to say that everybody deserves a second chance. Always. There are no sins that can't be forgiven. Fucking lol.
At the end of the day she was complicit. At the end of the day, your woman said "fuck you and fuck our relationship" and did what she wanted. 20 minutes of excuses to underline the fact that it wasn't really her fault. What was frightening was the level of delusion women can build for themselves.
I told my cousin flat out that I wasn't surprised he was pissed, and I couldn't fault him for dumping your stupid ass. It was hilarious watching them both squirm.
Anybody who's close with you, other than your best male friends, is along for the ride. Just like women can drop BFF's at the drop of a hat for drama, you should be willing to do the same. There's mutual respect there, of course, but it's not a symbiotic relationship. You should be absolutely able to live without a woman and give 'em the boot when they start fucking with your dreams.