Furious White Belt -yusul -Furious White Belt -
So, I finally got my ex to spill the beans. We had experienced a lot of turbulence when she got a male personal trainer which led to our first break up because there was a lot of indicators that she liked the guy. This led to obvious problems and I saw it coming. Soon after, we got back together and dated for about another year or so. Now I find out that she was cheating on me with him towards the end of our first relationship, messing with him throughout our break, and all the way on and off through our time back together. To make it worse, he was married. I have a sense of relief that I finally know the truth. I know I'm going to get ribbed by you guys, I expect it. I'm not even that upset now. I just want to know for those of you who have dealt with this type of situation, did you ever trust another girl after? I just can't see how I could and that's what fucks with me the most.
so the issue is, why are you even talking to your ex?
Honestly man I wanted to work things out again. I feel like I needed to settle down and she is very family oriented. There were things I thought maybe I could do better(help more around the house, get back in shape, get my work life back together) that would improve the relationship but after she dropped this bombshell I think I am ruined for a while. I can't see how I could trust anyone.
"after she dropped this bombshell I think I am ruined for a while. I can't see how I could trust anyone."
before this sentence i thought you were male cuz only bitches say something so stupid. carry on and remember that ur beautiful, strong and brave