Would you be cool if you were about to dating/marrying a chick and you found there's a trove of material of her finger blasting herself on the internet?
Is there a line: As long as she didn't show her face? It all happened before you met her? She won't ever do it again? Or do you not care that in a PTA meeting every dad is thinking about that cucumber he saw up your wife's semi-hairy asshole?