What would you do?
I ask, because my brother-in-law of mine is facing some serious charges. Yes, he fucked up but the DA is going bombastic with charges for a public servant (Firefighter) who is damn straight a good guy and a good person who just faced one of those situations in life that most men fear ever facing because they would make the same decision.
The backstory is this little 23 hipster kid that worked with the wife at Fry's and he is a barista. Fell in love with her and was going to man up and go to the martial home with children to tell him this - he was warned several times NOT to come over and he still did.
So when he came over, DJ worked him over a little but just wanted to scare the living shit out of him. Now an aggressive POS DA is trying to push outrageous charges. We are starting to mount the defense and getting money together but with a case with this much public image, we need help. Yea, DJ deserves to get punished some but it does not mean he should lose everything in his life for taking the same action that most men would.
The media story is out from the boyfriend - No they were not getting a divorce, no he did not lure the guy over (texts will prove that in court).