OtherGround Forums Why do some white girls only date black guys?

6 days ago
1/27/07
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So what is it that attracts white girls to black guys and not white guys? what are they better at?
6 days ago
10/2/12
Posts: 7219

Daddy issues. 

6 days ago
1/28/12
Posts: 3209

There is an inherent desire in humans that makes us want to procreate with different looking humans.

 

It is a natural way to keep to the gene pool as large and clean as nature can keep it.

 

It is a natural thing for different people to want to fuck. 

 

Nature - it's that fucking simple. Stop overthinking this shit.

6 days ago
11/20/05
Posts: 19562
Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.
6 days ago
3/12/10
Posts: 3821
i wondered the same thing when i noticed that about half the japanese women who leave japan to go to live in NY alone end up with black guys.

i ended up reading a book about it and the women basically said that they got no attention paid to them by white guys while they couldn't go down the street without black guys going "wassup girl" and they give in finally out of loneliness and end up black and never going back.

i assume besides the white girls who are just into the way black guys look or something, and the whole "hip-hop is cool" thing, they either only get attention from black guys or the first attention they got was from a black guy and that started them down the road.
6 days ago
6/19/12
Posts: 3222

My superpower is being able to look at a white girl and know that she prefers the dark meat.   

 

 

6 days ago
4/15/16
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They're fat
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10/27/05
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StretchPlum - Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.

 

I'm sorry...this comment couldn't be more incorrect if you tried.

 

The instances of interracial relationships between black men and white women are FAR HIGHER.

You've got this argument backwords.

 

 

IMHO, first post nailed it.

One of my best friends from work used to date black guys. She doesn't anymore.

From talking to her she's had a lot of daddy issues, family was insanely racist, and dating black guys who she couldn't bring around her family was her way of acting out when she was younger. She got serious with one, but he was a POS, had issues with the police and keeping a job, then finally knocked another girl up while they were together. Thankfully she walked.  She's going to school for her masters and has a great head on her shoulders. I just think she did the typical "I can fix him" thing with a POS.

Now she's got several white female friends in relationships with black guys and when she tells them about our relationship they seem astonished that she's so happy, she says "you need to get a white guy." Anecdotally it appears that her experience and everyone of her friends that dates black men is that the guys are just walking stereotypes and the women being viewed as less than for dating black men feel they don't deserve any better.

6 days ago
2/29/12
Posts: 861

The long dick style

6 days ago
6/27/15
Posts: 219
Thage - 
StretchPlum - Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.

 

I'm sorry...this comment couldn't be more incorrect if you tried.

 

The instances of interracial relationships between black men and white women are FAR HIGHER.

You've got this argument backwords.

 

 

IMHO, first post nailed it.

One of my best friends from work used to date black guys. She doesn't anymore.

From talking to her she's had a lot of daddy issues, family was insanely racist, and dating black guys who she couldn't bring around her family was her way of acting out when she was younger. She got serious with one, but he was a POS, had issues with the police and keeping a job, then finally knocked another girl up while they were together. Thankfully she walked.  She's going to school for her masters and has a great head on her shoulders. I just think she did the typical "I can fix him" thing with a POS.

Now she's got several white female friends in relationships with black guys and when she tells them about our relationship they seem astonished that she's so happy, she says "you need to get a white guy." Anecdotally it appears that her experience and everyone of her friends that dates black men is that the guys are just walking stereotypes and the women being viewed as less than for dating black men feel they don't deserve any better.


So is she a BF from work? like you said in the first line, or are you in a relationship with her like you said in the next paragraph?
My guess is you are her fag friend who she can talk to?

Stop making shit up on the internet.
6 days ago
10/27/05
Posts: 32906
aryaseyeballz - 
Thage - 
StretchPlum - Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.

 

I'm sorry...this comment couldn't be more incorrect if you tried.

 

The instances of interracial relationships between black men and white women are FAR HIGHER.

You've got this argument backwords.

 

 

IMHO, first post nailed it.

One of my best friends from work used to date black guys. She doesn't anymore.

From talking to her she's had a lot of daddy issues, family was insanely racist, and dating black guys who she couldn't bring around her family was her way of acting out when she was younger. She got serious with one, but he was a POS, had issues with the police and keeping a job, then finally knocked another girl up while they were together. Thankfully she walked.  She's going to school for her masters and has a great head on her shoulders. I just think she did the typical "I can fix him" thing with a POS.

Now she's got several white female friends in relationships with black guys and when she tells them about our relationship they seem astonished that she's so happy, she says "you need to get a white guy." Anecdotally it appears that her experience and everyone of her friends that dates black men is that the guys are just walking stereotypes and the women being viewed as less than for dating black men feel they don't deserve any better.


So is she a BF from work? like you said in the first line, or are you in a relationship with her like you said in the next paragraph?
My guess is you are her fag friend who she can talk to?

Stop making shit up on the internet.

Damn, I didn't edit all of it out.

My op had it explaining that we were dating, but I wasn't wanting to get flamed for dating a girl who used to date black guys. I should have just deleted the post.

I've been here for a long time, no need to lie about something like this.

We've been friends at work, working together in the same department for 4 years. She split up with her ex a year ago, I left my wife and am going through a divorce this year and the two of us started dating.

She's awesome, about 8 years younger than me (26/34) about to start school for her masters degree. We get along great but I'm not taking it too seriously.

I would consider her my best female friend, which is why I wanted to date her. Unlike a lot of guys on the OG I didn't hold it against her that she previously dated black guys.

Edited: 6 days ago
1/1/11
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You're dating/banging this chick, but call her 'your BF from work?' No way does any man refer to his girlfriend as his best friend from work.
6 days ago
1/1/01
Posts: 6398
I am all for white girls dating black guys...greedy selfish entitled bitches. I am all for spreading their rotten bullshit amongst all guys
5 days ago
3/29/13
Posts: 313
Did anyone ever think maybe it's just what they're attracted to? Jesus no need to over analyze everything.
5 days ago
10/27/05
Posts: 32908
MalleusMazaBlaska - You're dating/banging this chick, but call her 'your BF from work?' No way does any man refer to his girlfriend as his best friend from work.

Sorry she's the closest friend I have at work that I hang out with. I would consider her my closest female friend.

 

So yes, *looks down, sees hog* I'm a man and before we started dating I viewed her as my best friend (female/work).

5 days ago
8/1/10
Posts: 2029

It depends on the black guy and the white girl.

Some black guys are thugged out loser drug dealer pieces of shit, and they attract trashy white girls who are into that.

Other black guys are the athlete types, have status, and some white girls are attracted to that, especially if money is included.

And some black guys are just normal guys, and are cool as shit, so the white girls who like them probably like them because they're normal and cool.

There are some black guys who are irresponsible scumbags who don't take care of their kids, and fool gullible white girls into short-term relationships by being charming, but there are also scumbag white guys who do the same thing.  In that case, they're just like any other low rent asshole, singling out a vulnerable girl with no intention of staying with them.

Some white girls who are insecure about white guys liking their bodies will try to attract black guys because literally any wilderbeast white girl can find a black guy who will be attracted to banging them.  Those kinds of white chicks usually end up supporting whichever brother is willing to smash their fat.

In other words, the correct answer is that it varies based on the people involved.  White chicks don't all have the same motivations or taste or type if they're dating black dudes.

I know this one lady who is married to a black dude.  They've been together since high school.  She's a knockout and he looks like a trashy piece of shit.  As a family, he works and is a good father, even though he looks like a dirtbag.  She works hard and is a total knockout, and has stayed with him because she's a good woman and loves her family.  People look at them and can't believe she's married to the guy, but for whatever reason their relationship has worked.  She's faithful, kind, and a good person, so it's not like she's some insecure white trash with no confidence, she's actually the opposite of that.  

People who are uncomfortable with interracial relationships would probably judge her harshly, but I think they're a great couple.  Their kids are smart and well behaved.  As a family unit they seem to all be happy and secure and comfortable.  In her case, the answer would be that she's with him because she loves him and because their family is a strong one.

5 days ago
8/1/10
Posts: 2030
Thage -
aryaseyeballz - 
Thage - 
StretchPlum - Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.

 

I'm sorry...this comment couldn't be more incorrect if you tried.

 

The instances of interracial relationships between black men and white women are FAR HIGHER.

You've got this argument backwords.

 

 

IMHO, first post nailed it.

One of my best friends from work used to date black guys. She doesn't anymore.

From talking to her she's had a lot of daddy issues, family was insanely racist, and dating black guys who she couldn't bring around her family was her way of acting out when she was younger. She got serious with one, but he was a POS, had issues with the police and keeping a job, then finally knocked another girl up while they were together. Thankfully she walked.  She's going to school for her masters and has a great head on her shoulders. I just think she did the typical "I can fix him" thing with a POS.

Now she's got several white female friends in relationships with black guys and when she tells them about our relationship they seem astonished that she's so happy, she says "you need to get a white guy." Anecdotally it appears that her experience and everyone of her friends that dates black men is that the guys are just walking stereotypes and the women being viewed as less than for dating black men feel they don't deserve any better.


So is she a BF from work? like you said in the first line, or are you in a relationship with her like you said in the next paragraph?
My guess is you are her fag friend who she can talk to?

Stop making shit up on the internet.

Damn, I didn't edit all of it out.

My op had it explaining that we were dating, but I wasn't wanting to get flamed for dating a girl who used to date black guys. I should have just deleted the post.

I've been here for a long time, no need to lie about something like this.

We've been friends at work, working together in the same department for 4 years. She split up with her ex a year ago, I left my wife and am going through a divorce this year and the two of us started dating.

She's awesome, about 8 years younger than me (26/34) about to start school for her masters degree. We get along great but I'm not taking it too seriously.

I would consider her my best female friend, which is why I wanted to date her. Unlike a lot of guys on the OG I didn't hold it against her that she previously dated black guys.

One of my good female friends from college dated a black guy through high school.  Her reasoning was that he was nice to her, she was insecure, and he wasn't ghetto.  When he went away to play football at a different school than she planned to attend, they split up and he wanted to start seeing other people.

When she matured she realized he was probably cheating on her and had been with a lot of other girls, but they remained friends who don't talk much anymore.  I could've dated her (she was hot as shit) but I decided to stay with my girlfriend, who I'm still with.

I wouldn't have ever considered dating her if her ex was a piece of shit thug type, but he actually was a pretty cool dude.  If I were him I would've made the same decisions he did, so I can't knock the guy, and I can't knock her for dating him.

I think the people you date say a lot about your insecurities and confidence levels, so I wouldn't date anyone who has dated a loser, but I also am not so insecure that I'd turn down a girl because her ex was black.  I don't date losers, or girls who bang losers, that's my main rule, and the girl has to be hot.

5 days ago
10/27/05
Posts: 32911

Yeah, he wasn't thuggish. If he was I don't think I would be friends with her or date her. Typically girls who date that kind of guy have it come out in their personality. I couldn't date a girl that was ghetto.

5 days ago
1/29/12
Posts: 2025

Once you go black we don't want you back. 

5 days ago
4/21/09
Posts: 10286
StretchPlum - Despite all the porn certain white guys like, an incredibly miniscule group of people comprise this topic. Dating site stats show that the number of black girls that want white men, in any age group, is much higher.
This has been my experience.

I've fucked way more black chicks than black dudes...
5 days ago
9/2/10
Posts: 2782
Most of them are fat and ugly and can't find a white guy to date them
5 days ago
1/13/10
Posts: 39128

It's very simple, 9/10 times the girl's father is a racist so she does it in spite.

5 days ago
3/17/14
Posts: 8527
What I find interesting is when a girl who has sisters starts to date only black guys. The other sisters seem to follow suit aswell.

Same thing happens with a group of friends aswell.
5 days ago
4/22/07
Posts: 53659
You guys type too much. Correct answer;

BBC
5 days ago
5/24/15
Posts: 75
My younger sister has always been with black guys - at least since high school. The guy she's been with for years and has a half dozen kids with is a drug dealer, thug life type, and that's the appeal to her. She was always garbage; started making our parents' lives hell very early on and has not improved as of yet.

About 15 years ago, she became obsessed with the blackness she so feverishly coveted. One evening, in a racially confused state, she locked herself in a bathroom for an hour or so. What emerged was an atrocity forever etched into my memory. This fool had shaven her fuckin eyebrows off, drew a fresh set on with black eyeliner, and greased her goddammed head with vaseline. Like, full on greased from scalp to the ends of her hair. Still makes me lol when I think about it.