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9/26/12 11:53 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
paw 506 Member Since: 1/1/01 Posts: 30982	Hang in there! You have ignored this user.

10/1/12 7:15 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
Adventure Runner 289 Member Since: 7/18/11 Posts: 731	Hey, man. It'll take work to get over this, but it sounds like you're on your way. Eventually those "depressed days" will get fewer and further between, and then life will just carry on. You'll be better off too. Stronger emotionally and without this chick in your life. It sucks any time at all, but it's better finding out sooner rather than later. You have ignored this user.

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BaconRage 19 Edited: 11/07/12 2:04 PM Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1737	My ex just texted me. Nothing great she just said please talk to me. I told her to talk to my lawyer. I'm shaking like a leaf, can't calm down. You have ignored this user.

11/7/12 2:17 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
cthlcschlgrl Member Since: 11/21/03 Posts: 84016	BaconRage - My ex just texted me. Nothing great she just said please talk to me. I told her to talk to my lawyer. I'm shaking like a leaf, can't calm down. Don't back down. You did the right thing. DO NOT talk to her. Hang in there buddy. You have ignored this user.

11/7/12 2:25 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
MarsMan 124 Member Since: 12/18/03 Posts: 9609	BaconRage - My ex just texted me. Nothing great she just said please talk to me. I told her to talk to my lawyer. I'm shaking like a leaf, can't calm down. Change your number. She's going to call you from a number you don't know and try to drag you into drama. You have ignored this user.

11/7/12 2:51 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1738	MarsMan - BaconRage - My ex just texted me. Nothing great she just said please talk to me. I told her to talk to my lawyer. I'm shaking like a leaf, can't calm down. Change your number. She's going to call you from a number you don't know and try to drag you into drama. Solid advice, I don't answer the phone if I don't know the number You have ignored this user.

11/7/12 6:28 PM

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Dark Knight 36 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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When it happened to me I got a call about 6 months later that she missed me and wanted to see me. I said no.

I had joined the Army and was home for Christmas about a year later. She called my mom after I was gone. I didnt call her back.

Imagine facing your friends and family after going back to her since they know what she did to you.

Change your phone number.

And you will now be able to give advice to younger guys that have this happen to them.

11/8/12 3:42 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
Leigh 322 Member Since: 1/1/01 Posts: 30694	stay strong, you did good You have ignored this user.

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DMC 26 Member Since: 3/18/02 Posts: 2784	Impressive. I'll be honest - I didn't think you were strong enough. You have ignored this user.

11/8/12 2:24 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1740	DMC - Impressive. I'll be honest - I didn't think you were strong enough. I appreciate that, and honestley when this whole thing went started I wasn't You have ignored this user.

11/9/12 7:17 AM

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DMC 26 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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I was really glad to read the part about you having a bigger circle of friends now.

It's only been what, 3 months? You probably still have bad days when you feel down and I'm sure you still miss her (or more specifically, miss who she WAS) but when you do wake up one day and realise you're over it it's the most liberating feeling in the world. The freedom of being a single guy in your 20s and 30s, especially if you have a good job, is just immense. You can do it all.

I wasn't lied to and f**ked around like you were but I was dumped by my GF of 9 years out of the blue one day. We were together from 15 to 24 years of age. I was in pieces. I cut off contact completely for over two years. Not even a text.

I woke up and that was it. I was over her. I never looked back. My life is awesome even if I do say so myself lol

11/10/12 7:43 PM

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BaconRage 19 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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She sent me an email today saying: I want to talk about the lawsuit with you. also about something else in relation to what happened right before the engagement ring. hear me out here please.

I just ignored it.

Then she texted me from a different number which I thought was weird, but i said: Just shot you an email, please read it let me know if we can talk. Otherwise ill leave you alone. But please I knowI hurt you.

I've told friends and family, some say just ignore it she misses you, others say just keep it short maybe she wants to settle out of court. This whole thing has given me an anxiety attack and I was shaking like a leaf reading these things. What say you support ground?

11/10/12 8:03 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1743	Just got another email how much she loves me and its the biggest mistake shes ever made. Ugh OG I know we can never be together, I know it. But this is still heart breaking all over again You have ignored this user.

11/10/12 11:49 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BrunoMcGyver 114 Member Since: 5/8/11 Posts: 5020	That sucks mate. Don't succumb to this drama queen of an ex. If you haven't already try doing something that will take your mind off it. Hang out with friends, play video games, go away for a few days, whatever you do don't give in mate. Stay strong and happy. You have ignored this user.

11/11/12 6:24 AM

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Leigh 322 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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horrible cunt. ignore her. realised she lost a good thing AND also realises she will be getting raped in court. after all the attitude she gave you about the money, she deserves all of this and more. forced you to go to your dad with stuff you didn't want to, tried to rip you off thousands of dollars and absolutely ripped your heart out. finally she has given you the opportunity to reclaim your dignity and you do that by ignoring her, so she becomes the needy chaser

11/12/12 11:11 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
snowman95 10 Member Since: 3/30/08 Posts: 1063	FUCK THAT HORRIBLE TRASH BAG! Be strong bacon, better things on the horizon for you! You have ignored this user.

11/13/12 7:48 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1746	I've stayed quiet, but in my head this what I've begged for for the last 2 months just so I could kick her while she's down and this whole thing has just depressed me You have ignored this user.

11/13/12 11:40 AM

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Gerbacio 250 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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BaconRage -
I've stayed quiet, but in my head this what I've begged for for the last 2 months just so I could kick her while she's down and this whole thing has just depressed me

Don't do ittt... Every time you think you loveher think about her licking the dudes ass... Let it fuel you hate and use it as your weapon!

That and the fact that she tried to fuck you in every way possible Phone Post

11/13/12 11:43 AM

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BaconRage 19 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Gerbacio -
BaconRage -
I've stayed quiet, but in my head this what I've begged for for the last 2 months just so I could kick her while she's down and this whole thing has just depressed me
Don't do ittt... Every time you think you loveher think about her licking the dudes ass... Let it fuel you hate and use it as your weapon!

That and the fact that she tried to fuck you in every way possible

The second half of that is what keeps playing over and over in my head, I've had nightmare similiar to the first part lol.

11/13/12 12:50 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
Dark Knight 36 Member Since: 1/1/01 Posts: 19901	Just be bigger. If you lower yourself then she will win. She needs to justify why she did this to you. You have ignored this user.

11/15/12 5:41 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
DMC 26 Member Since: 3/18/02 Posts: 2796	I really hope for your sake you don't take this girl back. It doesn't sound like you will but I've seen it happen too many times. If you do you'll be getting divorced in several years time with much larger sums of money involved and kids and then what you're feeling now will seem like child's play. You have ignored this user.

12/14/12 10:54 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
DMC 26 Member Since: 3/18/02 Posts: 2928	So what's going on with you? Still holding up alright? You have ignored this user.

12/14/12 11:40 AM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1800	Yep still holding strong, she signed the promisory note last night so we're in good shape. Wanted to use my store credit on the engagement ring to buy gold or silver but they weren't having it so still stuck with that but what are you going to do? You have ignored this user.

12/14/12 2:53 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
Gerbacio 250 Member Since: 2/6/10 Posts: 4994	How are you feeling? You have ignored this user.

12/14/12 5:07 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
BaconRage 19 Member Since: 5/29/09 Posts: 1802	Happy the notes signed, I'm normally a big fan of christmas not feeling it this year but I'm good for the most part You have ignored this user.

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