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1/2/13 12:40 PM

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Triangle Smoke 11 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Sorry OG, no pics....at least I warned.

FRAT version: Started dating girl, girl is going on vacation for a month to Thailand, girl claims that were not bf and GF and doesn't want anything serious before her trip. However wants to date me, and then become serious after she gets back.

I hear out of this "you wait here while I fuck people internationally."

She's 22, hot, tall, nice rack, party rave girl.

Non frat version

I started dating this girl mid October. Started out us fucking consistently. We then would go for dinner, smoke weed, listen to music and go out etc. She asked me out but I said I just wanted to be friends because I just got out of a relationship and she was a nut case. So we decided to be friends and take it slow. So I go to her Xmas party for work as her date and we get drunk, talk about dating and decide that it's cool to say we're dating. I still never introduced her as my GF though, but GF has been dropped a few times.

Now, she is going on a trip to Thailand for a month, with her friend who happens to be a guy. Whatever right?

Well on NYE someone comes up and asks who she is and was like "oh this your GF?" I was like uh, ya. And she smiles and says hello etc.

We're driving home and then she starts talking about if we're bf and GF or just dating and I'm all like "WTF?"
She then says that she didn't expect for this to happen and wasn't planning on having a serious relationship before her trip to Thailand and was hoping we could be more serious maybe after and until then just "date".

What I heard was "you wait here while I be a slut and let's date after I have my fun"

Instantly she back pedals and says "that came out wrong and I feel bad" sent me two texts the next morning saying she is sorry, feels like a total dick and that she hopes she didn't make it sound like she doesn't want to date me and says she intact does want to date me.

So OG. Am I seeing this right? I feel she just wants to place me on hold until her return and fuck some yugoslob.

Advice? Just move on to the next? Phone Post

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Motivated BJ 143 Member Since: 4/5/11 Posts: 637	I say just move on to the next. When she comes back u guys can start chattin it up again You have ignored this user.

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UGCTT_Charlie's_Tiger_Blood 25 Member Since: 1/5/10 Posts: 2307	You're both 22? You're young, keep it casual, bang some other strange while she's gone and then see how it goes when you get back. You have ignored this user.

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SoccerkickrevivaL 40 Member Since: 5/12/10 Posts: 8230	Have fun while she is gone. If you end up dating later...then it will work out. You have ignored this user.

1/2/13 12:58 PM	Ignore \| Quote \| Edit \| Warn Admin \| Vote Down \| Vote Up \| Delete Post
Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 134	I'm 24. Ya, thanks for the advice. I'll just bang some chicks out and see what happens. You have ignored this user.

1/2/13 1:13 PM

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Fighting 143 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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LOL! Dude, she's going to Thailand with a bro for a month and you're talking about dating her. nah, fuck that. See ya later. If I ran into her spontaneously some considerable time after she came back and her pussy healed, I'd just say hi.

She's going to be getting fucked non stop for 30 days. When she returns she just wants to call you up and pick back up where you left off?

Imagine a dude trying that shit with a girl. " Um, I'm going to Mexico for a month, wit ha chick who's just a friend. We aren't dating now, officially. But when we get back, then we'll "date." Sound fair? "

Nah, hell no.

1/2/13 1:21 PM

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Iwreastledabearonce 17 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Fighting - LOL! Dude, she's going to Thailand with a bro for a month and you're talking about dating her. nah, fuck that. See ya later. If I ran into her spontaneously some considerable time after she came back and her pussy healed, I'd just say hi.

She's going to be getting fucked non stop for 30 days. When she returns she just wants to call you up and pick back up where you left off?

Imagine a dude trying that shit with a girl. " Um, I'm going to Mexico for a month, wit ha chick who's just a friend. We aren't dating now, officially. But when we get back, then we'll "date." Sound fair? "

Nah, hell no.

This X3

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MarsMan 125 Member Since: 12/18/03 Posts: 10030	Tell her to fuck off and not to call you again. You have ignored this user.

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Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 135	I gotta ditch this chick. You have ignored this user.

1/2/13 1:52 PM

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UK Rampage 21 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Iwreastledabearonce -
Fighting - LOL! Dude, she's going to Thailand with a bro for a month and you're talking about dating her. nah, fuck that. See ya later. If I ran into her spontaneously some considerable time after she came back and her pussy healed, I'd just say hi.

She's going to be getting fucked non stop for 30 days. When she returns she just wants to call you up and pick back up where you left off?

Imagine a dude trying that shit with a girl. " Um, I'm going to Mexico for a month, wit ha chick who's just a friend. We aren't dating now, officially. But when we get back, then we'll "date." Sound fair? "

Nah, hell no.
This X3

Basically this!

I say you go off and do your own thing for a month and let her do her own thing and see what happens when she's back.

She didn't want to go out cos she didn't want to feel guilty for what she is with out a doubt gonna do out there. Then she realised it works both ways and you'd be free to do what u want while she's away so she backtracked, hoping you'd commit while she's off 'having fun'.

She cares about her own feelings mate, not yours. I say, do what you need to do FOR YOU, and whatever happens with her afterwards will happen. Phone Post

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MarsMan 125 Member Since: 12/18/03 Posts: 10031	Triangle Smoke - I gotta ditch this chick. Her attitude basically means "Are you willing to be my bitch?" (Read TPD's thread.) You shouldn't even consider taking her back...she has no respect for you and won't respect you more if you do. You have ignored this user.

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1/2/13 2:26 PM

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checkuroil 119 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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My buddy did the same thing to his girlfriend in college. He was going to Spain for a month and he wanted to be able to fuck all the hot tail there that he wanted. He told her that they would go on a break for a month and they were free to fuck anyone they wanted, but then when h returned they would start dating again. She fought with him over this for a long time but he threatened to leave her. Finally she gave in, and he banged a bunch of chicks in Spain. Do you want to be like my friends girlfriend. Phone Post

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Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 136	Fuck.... You have ignored this user.

1/2/13 2:34 PM

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Rhymenoceros 117 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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As a dude older than you, here is my advice:

You have no future with this girl. However, who cares?

What she has communicated to you is that you should not take her seriously. But does that make her your enemy? In fact it does not.

So here's what you do. Don't get your emotions wrapped up in this. Just be cool and do your own thing, focus on your own goals, etc. Keep her as a friend with benefits, booty call, whatever. If you get serious with another girl then you can ditch this one, but for now don't burn any bridges, just realize you shouldn't be making future plans with her either.

1/2/13 2:42 PM

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Triangle Smoke 11 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Rhymenoceros - As a dude older than you, here is my advice:

You have no future with this girl. However, who cares?

What she has communicated to you is that you should not take her seriously. But does that make her your enemy? In fact it does not.

So here's what you do. Don't get your emotions wrapped up in this. Just be cool and do your own thing, focus on your own goals, etc. Keep her as a friend with benefits, booty call, whatever. If you get serious with another girl then you can ditch this one, but for now don't burn any bridges, just realize you shouldn't be making future plans with her either.

Thanks man, that's some solid advice. Phone Post

1/2/13 2:50 PM

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Rhymenoceros 117 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Triangle Smoke -
Rhymenoceros - As a dude older than you, here is my advice:

You have no future with this girl. However, who cares?

What she has communicated to you is that you should not take her seriously. But does that make her your enemy? In fact it does not.

So here's what you do. Don't get your emotions wrapped up in this. Just be cool and do your own thing, focus on your own goals, etc. Keep her as a friend with benefits, booty call, whatever. If you get serious with another girl then you can ditch this one, but for now don't burn any bridges, just realize you shouldn't be making future plans with her either.
Thanks man, that's some solid advice.

Trust me - I'm 34, and looking back at when I was 24 I wish I hadn't gotten mad at girls who hurt my feelings a little bit here and there. They were just dumb and trying to figure life out just like me. If I hadn't let my pride get in the way I could have kept more friends with benefits and banged a lot more than I did.

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Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 138	I appreciate you looking out for my banging interests. You have ignored this user.

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DeathByTriangle 40 Member Since: 11/19/10 Posts: 4411	U can either accept the fact that's she's a bang buddy only and forever or u can pretend she never existed before Thailand once she gets back if u start dating cuz she's gonna get PLOWED there. also accept u will soon get the bad AIDS You have ignored this user.

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Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 139	TTT for other counties opinions. You have ignored this user.

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panic686 18 Member Since: 3/18/02 Posts: 18311	Definitely can't take her serious. Keep her as a fuck buddy at best but realize it is going nowhere. You have ignored this user.

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grandchampion 35 Member Since: 5/11/05 Posts: 1568	stop, go to her, get pics, post, continue... You have ignored this user.

1/4/13 12:20 PM

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UGCTT_Charlie's_Tiger_Blood 25 The total sum of your votes up and votes down

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Rhymenoceros - As a dude older than you, here is my advice:

You have no future with this girl. However, who cares?

What she has communicated to you is that you should not take her seriously. But does that make her your enemy? In fact it does not.

So here's what you do. Don't get your emotions wrapped up in this. Just be cool and do your own thing, focus on your own goals, etc. Keep her as a friend with benefits, booty call, whatever. If you get serious with another girl then you can ditch this one, but for now don't burn any bridges, just realize you shouldn't be making future plans with her either.

Great Advice Phone Post

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Orcus Knows MMA Better Than Goku Member Since: 8/6/08 Posts: 20749	the sole difference between dating and bf/gf is exclusivity..meaning she is "dating" other guys...including the guy she is going to thailand with u dummy oh, and pics You have ignored this user.

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Triangle Smoke 11 Member Since: 6/16/12 Posts: 140	Update, she tried to talk it out and I said we should be just friended she cried a little then went home. You have ignored this user.

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