Ronda's mom: 'She took 0 chances'


UFC women's bantamweight champion Ronda Rousey famously learned to fight under the guidance of her mother, Dr. Ann Maria Rousey DeMars, the first American to win a World Judo Championship. Dr. De Mars was given to taking maxims like “Practice doesn’t make perfect, perfect practice makes perfect” and making them more pointed.

“You know what happens when you practice half-ass, Ronda?" Dr. DeMars asked her daughter. "You f@$%ing lose!”

Ronda's mom has a blog on achieving success in business, sports and academics, that includes random thoughts on Judo, parenting, mixed martial arts, winning & whatever she feels like rambling on.

The most recent entry is her daughter's fight at UFC 168

My husband asked me what I thought about Ronda's fight and I'll tell you the same thing that I told him.

It was clear to me that she took 0 chances in the fight. In her earlier fights, she had taken more risks and even though that resulted in her winning her fights very quickly, it also meant that a couple of times she got in positions that were a disadvantage and that she had to fight out her way out of.

In this fight, she only went for the arm bar when she could could do it without taking any chances of giving her opponent an advantage. It's not the way I would have done it, which is interesting because when we did judo, if you compared Ronda's matches to mine, she was generally more of a risk taker.

Be that as it may, I am very hesitant to criticize the decisions elite athletes make in a match, especially when they win. You can make suggestions as a coach, but the fact is, it's not you out there fighting and the person who is fighting has to make snap decisions based on numerous variables - the way they feel balanced, the other person's balance, direction of movement, etc.

I told Ronda what I have told her a hundred times, "if the referee's hand goes to the side you are on (i.e., you won), then you did it right."

For all of the people talking about Ronda's manners, behavior, etc. etc. I will tell you two things:

As I told the nice man from ESPN, Ronda is 26 years old and in a very public arena. If you think of all of the things you see from entertainers and professional athletes - DUI, steroid use, wild parties, drug rehab, multiple extramarital affairs and on and on. Or just think of the average 26-year-old. If you're a parent and the WORST thing anyone can say about your 26-year-old child is that he or she says "Fuck" and didn't shake someone's hand, you ought to go to mass, light candles, get down on your knees and say a prayer of thanks.

Recently someone who had lied to me and about me came up to me at an event and tried to shake my hand. I told him, "You've got to be kidding me!' If you lie about someone behind their back, disrespect them and their friends, I completely understand if that person doesn't want to shake hands with you. Pretending that "It's all good now" might make the liar feel better but I don't see why you should do it. If that's what you think you should do, then I won't tell you how to run your life, but I personally have seen a lot of organizations that are completely ineffective because everyone tries to get along, and people who are dishonest or incompetent stick around because no one wants to get in their face and tell them to get the hell out.

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CindyO site profile image  

1/2/14 5:26 PM by CindyO

Hahahaha!!! You make a good point=)   Cindy

JeffersonDArcyChoke site profile image  

1/1/14 7:45 PM by JeffersonDArcyChoke

I'd pay Ronda's mom 4.99 a minute on Streammate to provide JOI in a firm manner.

devils advocate site profile image  

1/1/14 7:44 PM by devils advocate

funny I thought just the opposite ronda was playing with miesha, she would throw her down and then stand back up so she could throw her again

JBASS site profile image  

1/1/14 7:39 PM by JBASS

Interesting - Ronda's mum told her that it's her choice whether TUF is a reality show or an athletic competition. So shouldn't she be abusing her daughter for turning it into a reality show about herself instead of an athletic competition about fighters??

nhbmark2 site profile image  

1/1/14 7:26 PM by nhbmark2

I find her mom as annoying as Ronda.I wouldn't cross the street to see either of them.

YouCantHandleMyRiddum site profile image  

1/1/14 7:03 PM by YouCantHandleMyRiddum

lmao 3 vtfu

CindyO site profile image  

1/1/14 6:09 PM by CindyO

So, if I was Ronda, I would train my ass off and I would follow the sage coaching advice of Jimmy Martin. I'd also make damn sure I found out who pulled that dick move on me and never trust him/ them again. The good thing is you get to take out your emotions beating people up and that will make a great show. You can forgive, but don't forget. If someone will manipulate you just for show, well, that tells you something about them doesn't it?   Momma Rousey is almost as entertaining as Ronda, IMO.   Cindy      

Liyon site profile image  

1/1/14 5:03 PM by Liyon

Except it has nothing to do with Rousey/Tate's situation. They are hired contractors who don't work together. It's like two movie stars having a "feud". It's actually good for business!In fact, it looked like Tate had no problem getting in Rousey's face and being "honest" and vice-versa. De Mars line would have made more sense if it was a situation where Zuffa employees were scared to tell Dana White he's screwing things up b/c they didn't want to get fired.

Bann site profile image  

1/1/14 3:55 PM by Bann


OnCall site profile image  

1/1/14 11:57 AM by OnCall

Neat link from that blog...