He would have been three today


He Would Have Been 3 Today.

From: Khun Kao
Posted: 07/23/13 1:37 PM
Member Since: 1/1/01
Posts: 21715

Victor Arthur Miller

He had a very serious birth defect called Anencephaly. It's a neural tube defect simliar to Spina Bifada. There is no procedure that can be done to correct or reverse it, there is no cure. All we could do is try to make things as comfortable for him as we could. Most babies with anencephaly are stillborn, if they make it to term. Victor was stillborn.

We had to have labor induced because Victor was almost a month late. He was originally due on July 4th, but decided he liked where he was until we induced on July 23rd.

We were aware of our baby's condition from the first ultrasound, and had to bear the weight of our decision to not terminate the pregnancy throughout. It's not something I would wish on anyone, and there are definitely a few mofos out there who I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire.

That whole "reason for everything" is a fucking crock of shit. There is no fucking reason. The world is a fucking cruel place. But people need to find SOMETHING to console themselves....

It's been 3 years. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him.


Editors Note:

The Duke Center for Human Genetics is currently conducting a genetic study to determine the causes of anencephaly and other neural tube defects.

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anthiak site profile image  

7/24/13 3:44 PM by anthiak

So fucking dusty. So sorry dude. Can't even imagine what my life would become if I lost my little man. That is my nightmare.

scourge site profile image  

7/24/13 3:34 PM by scourge

thoughts and prayers for you my friend

TheWolf88 site profile image  

7/24/13 2:27 PM by TheWolf88

Sorry OP

bigconk74fe site profile image  

7/24/13 12:59 PM by bigconk74fe

This, I couldn't even imagine. Stay strong bromigo.

RPBJJ site profile image  

7/24/13 12:40 PM by RPBJJ

Same here (a couple weeks younger anyway).I cant imagine what Id do.Stay strong man.

thesonsofmontana site profile image  

7/24/13 12:31 PM by thesonsofmontana

So sorry for your loss. Big ups to the sweet prince Victor!

perenialquest site profile image  

7/24/13 12:30 PM by perenialquest

Brought a tear to my eye, I will be holding my 2 year old a little tighter tonight friend.

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7/24/13 12:27 PM by DiazsBongWater

Heart felt condolences brother x

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7/24/13 12:27 PM by fahker

Deepest condolences!

JolietJake site profile image  

7/24/13 12:08 PM by JolietJake

Very sorry. I have no words but those. God Speed.