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holy moly at seemore butts!! mate, are you for real?
1/28/11 10:49 AM
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JohnnyBGood - Effectively what your saying right there is, the less emotionally attached you are to a hoe, the less vulnerable she perceives you to be, the stronger she see's you as, and therefore the more attracted she will be to you..

...

so why are hoes always banging on that they want a "deeper connection" with their man, want to see his vulnerable side etc.

Are they all just hateful and deceitful and it's a power/ego thing, in an attempt to break down or deconstruct, in a sense, the man they "love", but secretly despise, due to the power we have over them??

You can be deeply in love with a girl and feel tremendous emotions for her. What us successful men do differently is that we dont talk about our emotions.
Lesser men talk about their emotions to women and they in turn imagine them being weak and simultaneously lose the mystique.

Once again, if you speak your mind or emotions to a woman you lose your mystique. We as men usually are very straight up and honest about our thoughts and when we fall in love we think it's right to do the same thing. This way you kill the initial attraction and she has no reason to keep investing time/learning about you. 

What you should be doing is....

When a woman you are hooking up with asks you something. Never answer directly. Be hot and cold, be flighty. If she asks you about your emotions, joke it away. She may try to get angry or something else, and as in the previous post you do not lose your cool. 

For example;

Girl: "So what you do for a living?"
Me: "Superhero, saves women out of burning buildings etc."
Girl: "haha no really tell me??"
Men: "Haha ok....I'm a professional tango dancer"
Girl: "Really??? Show me some moves!!!"
Men: "Do I look like your personal clown? *serious tone*
Girl: "......"
Me: "I only work as a clown during the weekends"
 
etc etc.....keep playing the game and keep her guessing. Do not speak about your emotions, do not complain about shit. Men handle business, we dont talk about them. Men love, they dont talk about love.



THE NR 1 OBJECTIVE of a female is to make you open up and read you like a book. Dont let that happen.



BONUS TIP: After you have followed my advice and this hopefully attractive female is ready to commit to you. If you REALLY want to fuck with her head and say something no man has ever told her. Tell her this just after she tells you she wants a relationship;

"I really like you but I think we should just be friends"


She will become obsessed.






Yup.

 
1/28/11 10:50 AM
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Kevin bacon - Alright... That might have worked, there's only one problem. I don't want to touch her nasty chlamydia snatch ever again. Maybe I should just google her name until I find the mandatory bukkake porn (being a slutty jap\korean) she must have done at some point and then post that shit all over her face (pun). Pluss I don't really know her..

Jeg kan sende henne til Sverige hvis du vil ha henne

 Skicka hit henne så ska jag lära henne ett och annat... ;)
1/28/11 10:53 AM
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JohnnyBGood - Effectively what your saying right there is, the less emotionally attached you are to a hoe, the less vulnerable she perceives you to be, the stronger she see's you as, and therefore the more attracted she will be to you..

...

so why are hoes always banging on that they want a "deeper connection" with their man, want to see his vulnerable side etc.

Are they all just hateful and deceitful and it's a power/ego thing, in an attempt to break down or deconstruct, in a sense, the man they "love", but secretly despise, due to the power we have over them??

what they want and what they are attracted to are two completely different things
1/28/11 11:32 AM
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Leigh - holy moly at seemore butts!! mate, are you for real?


Ya I know man, it is pathetic. I don't normally do this. BTW I have already banged her. I am going to scale everything back. She wanted to take the weekend off, I fucking ignored her all last night, and now she is driving to my place tonight. I am going back to my old ways, "don't put the pussy on a pedestal."
1/28/11 11:35 AM
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Seemore Butts - Been hanging out with a girl for 2 months straight, off and on for 6 months. When we hang out, she is awesome, and we get along great. She is hot and cold though, one second she is all into me the next second she doesn't know. She has been honest with me and says she doesn't want a serious relationship. That is cool. But I am sick of her flightyness. I treat her like gold (i know bad) and she doesn't do the same in return (i know bad). I am at the end of my rope now, don't know what to do. I want to make it work because when we do hang out we get along fucking awesome, but don't want to deal with her not making her fucking mind up. She is not dating any one else and I trust her, accept for her dumb whore friend.

This is a no brainer....

She is doing what I like to refer to as a shit test. <b>All women </b>do them. It is their way of separating the men from the boys. The reason she is acting flighty and 'hot and cold' (oldest shit test known to man) is because she wants to see how you react in different situations. 

For example. Girl does the hot and cold routine and the guy;

A: "Baby why are you so distant???? anything wrong??? please let me know if anything is wrong?! You know how much I like you right?!??

This behaviour tells the woman that the man is not self reliant and would not be able to handle/protect himself/her  when shit goes down.

B: Man acts indifferent to her childish games. She may try to turn it up a notch by trying to provoke him but he <b>never loses his cool</b>. He doesnt change because she turns emotional. He is self reliant, cool under pressure, and handles business.


Women will do endless shit tests until they finally cave in and let u bang them. You will know how to handle them based on this information and when you have learnt to detect the shit test itself. 


P.S Never treat a woman like gold. You are the prize, not her.


Hey thanks man. I have already banged her, met her family, she has met mine etc. It is a little more than just hanging out but your advice is spot on thanks.
1/28/11 12:21 PM
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 got a gf, we r in love 5 months . almost everything is cool, but shes moody. seems to search for stuff to complain about, looks for reasons to be mad.about once a week she is just crazy, fully irrational. in those moments i wanna choke her unconcious, but of course i dont.she always comes back around eventually.
1/28/11 12:40 PM
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I've read most of the thread.

PD - I was doing what you were doing at your age.

A lot of good advice.

yes guys, this stuff happens. I was getting chicks to go home with me before we even got in the club. I'd chat them up while waiting in line. Girls would TELL ME, "I'm going home with you tonight"!

I don't know how I did it. Well, I do, it was not giving a damn about myself or anyone else, just looking for fun and if a girl turned me down, F THEM, it was their loss.

Now, I am dating this girl who is too argumentative, she questions everything I say, useless in the kitchen, I COOK FOR HER, shes not going to last very long.

I am 31 now, the young dude who got dumped, good luck bro, you need to move on, QUICK, I still think about my ex, I would do anything to be with her, she is a CRAZY red head, man she messed me up, I still think about her, 8 years later, Persian Devil, whats wrong with me?? Man this girl loved me, she'd do anything for me, and honestly, I really loved her, but I was 21 or so, and a bastard, I had it coming, I don't know if I will feel that way about a girl ever again, and it's prevented me from having any sort of meaningful relationship since she broke up with me

She actually called me after her first new bf didnt work out, I am proud to say I said straight up, if you aren't calling to get back with me, don't call, its not fair, I also passed on spending one nighters with her, because I knew she was only feeling lonely

my biggest mistake was all the drunk dialing,

guys who are broken hearted like that, do yourselves a favor and leave your phone with a friend

1/28/11 12:41 PM
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ranier wolfcastle -  got a gf, we r in love 5 months . almost everything is cool, but shes moody. seems to search for stuff to complain about, looks for reasons to be mad.about once a week she is just crazy, fully irrational. in those moments i wanna choke her unconcious, but of course i dont.she always comes back around eventually.

 Welcome to the world of women. They are all like that. Some more than others.

However, she shouldn't be pulling that shit that early in the relationship. Never lose your cool, instead, seem like you are losing interest and bail on a couple of dates next time. If she doesnt learn that you are losing interest and keeps up with the bullshit, then it's time to move on.
 
1/28/11 12:47 PM
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Guys, this is something that really helps me, remember, they are 'human' too, they are just another person, don't act so damn nervous just because a woman is beautiful, like PD says, they've got a ton of insecurities themselves.
1/28/11 12:52 PM
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Rock n Raleigh Suicide - I've read most of the thread.

PD - I was doing what you were doing at your age.

A lot of good advice.

yes guys, this stuff happens. I was getting chicks to go home with me before we even got in the club. I'd chat them up while waiting in line. Girls would TELL ME, "I'm going home with you tonight"!

I don't know how I did it. Well, I do, it was not giving a damn about myself or anyone else, just looking for fun and if a girl turned me down, F THEM, it was their loss.

Now, I am dating this girl who is too argumentative, she questions everything I say, useless in the kitchen, I COOK FOR HER, shes not going to last very long.

I am 31 now, the young dude who got dumped, good luck bro, you need to move on, QUICK, I still think about my ex, I would do anything to be with her, she is a CRAZY red head, man she messed me up, I still think about her, 8 years later, Persian Devil, whats wrong with me?? Man this girl loved me, she'd do anything for me, and honestly, I really loved her, but I was 21 or so, and a bastard, I had it coming, I don't know if I will feel that way about a girl ever again, and it's prevented me from having any sort of meaningful relationship since she broke up with me

She actually called me after her first new bf didnt work out, I am proud to say I said straight up, if you aren't calling to get back with me, don't call, its not fair, I also passed on spending one nighters with her, because I knew she was only feeling lonely

my biggest mistake was all the drunk dialing,

guys who are broken hearted like that, do yourselves a favor and leave your phone with a friend


There is something in your ex (specifik look, personality trait etc) that is keeping you thinking about her.
I dont think that you just dumped her without reason back when you were 21, there was a legit reason behind the fact that you lost interest. In other words, you need to remember why you two broke up in the first place.

And another thing is to accept that the past is the past, there is nothing wrong about thinking back and enjoying a good fantasy jerk session once in a while but.....you need to pinpoint why you two broke up and specifically the things about the relationship that you didn't enjoy.

And your current girlfriend sounds like a bitch. I would make her pay and so should you.

Stop giving a fuck and let her get whats coming. And stop fucking cooking. Only cook if you are using a barbeque.

You are partially right about not ever feeling the same for another girl as long as you dont move on. You need to kill those last dopamines that are floating around your system whenever you think about her. Remember this, she doesn't give a fuck about you as she is probably getting it from someone else. Why the fuck should you give her a worthy thought? She is not special. She never was.
1/28/11 12:58 PM
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RE the ex, I realize this, I THINK it was something special, there was some connection that I haven't experienced since, but I KNOW it's over, it's probably just that I keep meeting dumb, superficial girls that I haven't moved on. Yeah, the current one, at the moment, I am just passing the time.

I spent years banging A LOT of girls, and hey, that was a lot of fun, the numbers have dropped because I 'date' now, I don't go out so much, that's where you find the most sluts, at bars/clubs, and I am just over that.

and yeah there is a specific look about her, s
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Im gonna repost my own post from the previous page since I think no one should miss the point I am making here. Alot of guys fail to hook up because of this.





You can be deeply in love with a girl and feel tremendous emotions for her. What us successful men do differently is that we dont talk about our emotions.
Lesser men talk about their emotions to women and they in turn imagine them being weak and simultaneously lose the mystique.

Once again, if you speak your mind or emotions to a woman you lose your mystique. We as men usually are very straight up and honest about our thoughts and when we fall in love we think it's right to do the same thing. This way you kill the initial attraction and she has no reason to keep investing time/learning about you. 

What you should be doing is....

When a woman you are hooking up with asks you something. Never answer directly. Be hot and cold, be flighty. If she asks you about your emotions, joke it away. She may try to get angry or something else, and as in the previous post you do not lose your cool. 

For example;

Girl: "So what you do for a living?"
Me: "Superhero, saves women out of burning buildings etc."
Girl: "haha no really tell me??"
Men: "Haha ok....I'm a professional tango dancer"
Girl: "Really??? Show me some moves!!!"
Men: "Do I look like your personal clown? *serious tone*
Girl: "......"
Me: "I only work as a clown during the weekends"
 
etc etc.....keep playing the game and keep her guessing. Do not speak about your emotions, do not complain about shit. Men handle business, we dont talk about them. Men love, they dont talk about love.



THE NR 1 OBJECTIVE of a female is to make you open up and read you like a book. Dont let that happen.



BONUS TIP: After you have followed my advice and this hopefully attractive female is ready to commit to you. If you REALLY want to fuck with her head and say something no man has ever told her. Tell her this just after she tells you she wants a relationship;

"I really like you but I think we should just be friends"


She will become obsessed.






Yup.

 

1/28/11 12:59 PM
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anyway, theres some great advice on this thread.
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Rock n Raleigh Suicide - RE the ex, I realize this, I THINK it was something special, there was some connection that I haven't experienced since, but I KNOW it's over, it's probably just that I keep meeting dumb, superficial girls that I haven't moved on. Yeah, the current one, at the moment, I am just passing the time.

I spent years banging A LOT of girls, and hey, that was a lot of fun, the numbers have dropped because I 'date' now, I don't go out so much, that's where you find the most sluts, at bars/clubs, and I am just over that.

and yeah there is a specific look about her, s

A big mistake alot of guys do is they DATE. Tell me one guy who enjoys dating? Drinking coffee/drinks and talking shit like women?

If you really want to hook a girl up, you should be doing "action dates". Take her gocarting, play pool, rent a canoe, go swim, do something that requires you to move physically and more importantly something YOU ENJOY. She is just tagging along and as a man you are the natural leader, she will not feel bad or not enjoy it. Quite the opposite.
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yeah man, i use that term loosely, I HATE dating, I HATE going to dinner or coffee or some shit, I even hate meeting for drinks, but thats somewhat bearable. what I meant was I am not hooking up with random chicks from bars/clubs, I have to hang out with them a couple times before I get anywhere...
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I never pick up girls from bars, you never find quality there (looks sure, personality....rare).

The best women I have met have been at 'regular' establishments like stores, gas stations etc.
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man I just remembered something, I was watching southland the other night, man it was so intense, and this current says something so stupid in the middle of the most intense scene, not even related to the show, man I need to get rid of her.
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yeah PD, bar girls are only good for one nighters, maybe a second night if they are good, the trick is to have them call you back for more, you don't call them.
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lol yeah you need to get rid of her bro
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fantastic quotes you have on this thread that I cam sending to friends and also posting on my fridge
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thanks I hope they will help!
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JohnnyBGood - 
Rock n Raleigh Suicide - Guys, this is something that really helps me, remember, they are 'human' too, they are just another person, don't act so damn nervous just because a woman is beautiful, like PD says, they've got a ton of insecurities themselves.


This is difficult.

I mean, when you see a broad who's body you just want to, in the words of Justin Timberframe, "lick up and down", it can be difficult not to become a slave of sorts, to that shit.

It's a cunt aswell; all women have to do to stay in shape is eat right and go for the occasional power walk.

A man has to bust his ass in the gym, follow strict nutrition plan, and lifestyle

You need to keep cool. Even if you want to fuck the shit out of her you need to remain focused. Remember that the more you show the less interested she will become.

And we as men shouldn't really be complaining. I'll rather live and eat good, bust my ass in the gym for 7 days a week than go through periods, child birth, make up, plucking, waxing, hair dressing and all the other shit women and the guys in jersey shore do.
 
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JohnnyBGood - 
The Persian Devil - 
You need to keep cool. Even if you want to fuck the shit out of her you need to remain focused. Remember that the more you show the less interested she will become.


As in, one needs to keep breaking down that ego/wall of confidence/delusion of grandeur brought about by nice guys; as oppose to drooling over the sight of her?

...in order to get in her pants?

The Persian Devil
And we as men shouldn't really be complaining. I'll rather live and eat good, bust my ass in the gym for 7 days a week than go through periods, child birth, make up, plucking, waxing, hair dressing and all the other shit women and the guys in jersey shore do.


This is a valid point.

I shan't complain more.

 Exactly! But dont go balls to the wall and tell her she is a fat cow. Make it fun, and ease into it little by little.
Start making fun of something completely normal about her looks and break down that ego. For example if she has a perfectly normal nose, start telling her the nose makes her look like a aristocrat. If she asks what a aristocrat is, tell her your going to buy her a dictionary. If she asks if you think she is stupid, tell her no she reminds you of your little sister. Then play hot and cold....etc etc etc.

You can have alot of fun with this. Beats sitting around and drinking coffee and going "so whats up.....?"
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