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3/21/14 5:49 PM
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Wwzzjj92
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I'm 21, there's a baby involved, I have 40 dollars to my name, only idea I can think of is Job Corps, I wish I could train somewhere and clean for rent of something.

Any ideas? Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 5:51 PM
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If you're a girl you could always turn tricks. If you're a guy you could always turn tricks. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 5:52 PM
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Enlist? Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 5:53 PM
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I'm assuming you re a broad, call the po po, let them bust in and kill him - angryinch Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 5:53 PM
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Ray Irizarry
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A little more info would be helpful. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 5:54 PM
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Sell the baby Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 6:03 PM
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Define abusive.
3/21/14 6:17 PM
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I'm a man, she spends my money, puts me down about everything, and hits me, I defended myself and went to jail, I'm back, and it's hell.

Most recent cause for abuse was about not wanting to eat pasta so we can lose weight.

I need out and have extremely limited resources Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 6:18 PM
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Traning UFC isn't gonna help you bro. You need to take care of your kid and get your shit together. Call the cops if she's abusive. File for custody and child support if she has income. Get a truckers license (takes like 6 weeks and some places pay for your training) or something like that and get some income. Then take some college classes and shit. Get some pell grants or run up a bunch in loans. If you only got $40 what do you have to lose. This isn't the time to be following your jiu jitsu dreams.
3/21/14 6:18 PM
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Also post pics of her fat ass.
3/21/14 6:23 PM
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Akston
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Find a buddy, crash at his place, get a low income job, work hard, save up, pay your buddy, find a better job, get own place, enjoy life Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 6:23 PM
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antifret - Also post pics of her fat ass.
And this Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 6:29 PM
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You're still young. You have enough time to make significant changes. Deal with the bullshit until you can exit from the situation.

DO NOT ABANDON YOUR CHILD. I'm not saying you are but please don't out of frustration. There are lots of fathers who are ran out of the picture by batshit crazy exes.

Get yourself a short term plan to make some money. Don't give her the money. Use the money to get a place. Do you have any friends you can stay with for the time
being?

Start investing in yourself and then you won't have to be dependent on her or anyone else. You can do this. You have the power of the OG behind you. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 6:30 PM
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Puah her against a wall with a knife to her throat calling her a cunt and tell her you will kill her if she doesn't get away from you today.









Jokes, your honor, jokes. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:17 PM
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I was thinking I could leave the kid for like a year or two why I get my shit together, I just wanna live in a van outside of my gym, but I ain't got the van Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:26 PM
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Wwzzjj92 - I was thinking I could leave the kid for like a year or two why I get my shit together, I just wanna live in a van outside of my gym, but I ain't got the van Phone Post 3.0
You sound like a great father. Get your shit together, deadbeat. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:31 PM
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Do you work? Phone Post
3/21/14 7:33 PM
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In.
3/21/14 7:35 PM
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Akston - Find a buddy, crash at his place, get a low income job, work hard, save up, pay your buddy, find a better job, get own place, enjoy life Phone Post 3.0
This Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:35 PM
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Wwzzjj92 - I was thinking I could leave the kid for like a year or two why I get my shit together, I just wanna live in a van outside of my gym, but I ain't got the van Phone Post 3.0
Your kid should mean more to you than the gym. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:38 PM
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Is there any point giving you advice? I guess I'll try

* Stop giving her money :\
* Have her arrested when she assaults you.
* While she's under arrest, file a restraining order against her.
* File for custody of child.
* File for child support.
* Stop being such a fucking loser and shit dad. Phone Post 3.0
3/21/14 7:41 PM
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Don't let being guy stop you. You just have one less hole to rent out.
3/21/14 7:43 PM
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you seriously sound like a guy I know. He's been saying the same thing for over 10 years.

GET OUT!!! Now!!

Document, set up cameras in your house etc!

Get lawyer I don't care how much it costs, find one that will work with you.

Get your name off any credit cards / joint bank accounts. Set up your own.
3/21/14 7:45 PM
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lmao


all u ninjas getting trolled hard
3/21/14 7:46 PM
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Lol being a fucking vag!! Phone Post 3.0

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