OtherGround Forums 11 yo daughter called a racist at school today...

23 days ago
9/4/17
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Ebony -
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Erik Apple -
Uli Kunkel -
Erik Apple -
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HighInsideLegKick -
William H Muncy -

I'm mixed and was called every name in the book. Your kid will be OK. Sucks to hear that as a parent though. 

What kind of stuff? If it's too personal I understand that. I've recently started seeing a mixed girl and I wonder about it because it seems like she's dealt with the shit. But I don't wanna ask her because I'm afraid she'll cry because she's a woman. 

Nigger, oreo were the only ones that hit home to be honest 

I bet u were never called "constitution writer" though

What does that even mean? 

Little billy got mad in another thread, because I asked if any black people helped write the constitution

Erik's vapid stupidity is truly a blessing to behold. He's a goddamn walking, talking real-life example of the Dunning-Kruger effect. 

He actually knows the Dunning-Kruger family. He's actually fucked three and a half of their daughters including the former porn actress Jordan Dunning-Kruger.

Lol 

23 days ago
6/20/11
Posts: 31466

Your 11 year old was called racist by some dumb kid?

It happens... 

 

23 days ago
2/15/06
Posts: 22448
EasyTapper - 

And sadly there’s no defense when called that.  Anything you attempnto say will only make matters worse. 


Point out that they don't even know you yet they're calling you racist based on your skin color. Point out that they are actually the racists in this scenario.
23 days ago
12/22/10
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Ebony -
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Erik Apple -
Uli Kunkel -
Erik Apple -
William H Muncy -
HighInsideLegKick -
William H Muncy -

I'm mixed and was called every name in the book. Your kid will be OK. Sucks to hear that as a parent though. 

What kind of stuff? If it's too personal I understand that. I've recently started seeing a mixed girl and I wonder about it because it seems like she's dealt with the shit. But I don't wanna ask her because I'm afraid she'll cry because she's a woman. 

Nigger, oreo were the only ones that hit home to be honest 

I bet u were never called "constitution writer" though

What does that even mean? 

Little billy got mad in another thread, because I asked if any black people helped write the constitution

Erik's vapid stupidity is truly a blessing to behold. He's a goddamn walking, talking real-life example of the Dunning-Kruger effect. 

He actually knows the Dunning-Kruger family. He's actually fucked three and a half of their daughters including the former porn actress Jordan Dunning-Kruger.

23 days ago
2/20/09
Posts: 15728
EasyTapper -

And sadly there’s no defense when called that.  Anything you attempnto say will only make matters worse. 

I’m going to teach my kids that if they are accused of being racist and in fact aren’t, their response should be, “go fuck your mother”.

23 days ago
3/6/06
Posts: 29272
EFM - 

daughter was talking to some friends after school and a black kid she didn't know walked up to her and asked if he could ride her bike.  she said no.  he said, 'it's because i'm black, isn't it'.  she again said no.  he then called her a racist in front of a group of kids and ran away.

i hate the idea of my kid getting picked on or name called in anyway, but that word really infuriates me, especially when my daughter has been friends with all races of kids her whole life.

fucking kids.  they're assholes.


Are you racist?
23 days ago
6/3/19
Posts: 102

I used to call a dorky black dude I was friends with Oreo. That was fucked up, he’s a software engineer now so I think he got over it. I still feel bad about it though. My point is, don’t get involved...kids are assholes and that’s part of growing up.

23 days ago
4/13/12
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donkypunch55 -
EasyTapper -

And sadly there’s no defense when called that.  Anything you attempnto say will only make matters worse. 

I’m going to teach my kids that if they are accused of being racist and in fact aren’t, their response should be, “go fuck your mother”.

thought about telling her to ask about his father.  obviously i didn't.

i know, that's a dick thing to say but looking back at every single fuck up i knew as a kid, 90% were single mother homes and the other 10% were single fathers or parents headed for divorce.  parentS matter.

23 days ago
3/6/06
Posts: 29273
StrikingMMA - 
EasyTapper - 

And sadly there’s no defense when called that.  Anything you attempnto say will only make matters worse. 


Point out that they don't even know you yet they're calling you racist based on your skin color. Point out that they are actually the racists in this scenario.

using a strawman just cones across as admitting that you are a racist.
Edited: 23 days ago
4/13/12
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EFM - 

daughter was talking to some friends after school and a black kid she didn't know walked up to her and asked if he could ride her bike.  she said no.  he said, 'it's because i'm black, isn't it'.  she again said no.  he then called her a racist in front of a group of kids and ran away.

i hate the idea of my kid getting picked on or name called in anyway, but that word really infuriates me, especially when my daughter has been friends with all races of kids her whole life.

fucking kids.  they're assholes.


Are you racist?

yes.  i was raised in a jewish family and am now athiest.  i'm intellectually and morally superior to pretty much everyone.

23 days ago
1/1/01
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JKDude - 
Onikage - 
Jack Carter -

That kid was taught to think that way from adults 

And Don Lemon


Don Lemon is an adult

*allegedly

23 days ago
4/29/09
Posts: 23841
EFM -

daughter was talking to some friends after school and a black kid she didn't know walked up to her and asked if he could ride her bike.  she said no.  he said, 'it's because i'm black, isn't it'.  she again said no.  he then called her a racist in front of a group of kids and ran away.

i hate the idea of my kid getting picked on or name called in anyway, but that word really infuriates me, especially when my daughter has been friends with all races of kids her whole life.

fucking kids.  they're assholes.

That happened at my cousins house when we were kids, but we had a more traditional experience where we let him ride the bike and he never came back lmao

23 days ago
9/4/17
Posts: 15251

How is is possible that people are calling efm racist? I'm really starting to think about posters here 

23 days ago
10/14/03
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ABCTT_Disco Dracula - 

When I was in 7th grade, in my english class, the row I was in had to get up (our turn), form a line to get to the teacher to look at our papers or whatever... 

I'm in the middle and this thuggy asain kid in front of me took step back and barley bumped me... He turned around and looked up at me and said,

"better watch your back, nigga... ". 

Turns back around... 

 

I'm white...  Hahahah

 

That shit still makes me laugh to this day... 


How is 8th grade going?

23 days ago
9/4/17
Posts: 15252

My own grandfather said some racist shit about my father. Years later he apologized and I love him and rip. But it goes to show anyone can be racist and your can also forgive them.

 

23 days ago
8/9/16
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William H Muncy -

How is is possible that people are calling efm racist? I'm really starting to think about posters here 

I was just kind of skimming the posts and thought most were joking... 

But damn... 

EFM didn't say anything racist, imo...  

23 days ago
8/9/16
Posts: 21326
GenErick -
ABCTT_Disco Dracula - 

When I was in 7th grade, in my english class, the row I was in had to get up (our turn), form a line to get to the teacher to look at our papers or whatever... 

I'm in the middle and this thuggy asain kid in front of me took step back and barley bumped me... He turned around and looked up at me and said,

"better watch your back, nigga... ". 

Turns back around... 

 

I'm white...  Hahahah

 

That shit still makes me laugh to this day... 


How is 8th grade going?

It was okay.... 

 

23 days ago
4/13/12
Posts: 28438
William H Muncy -

My own grandfather said some racist shit about my father. Years later he apologized and I love him and rip. But it goes to show anyone can be racist and your can also forgive them.

 

...and just because someone is racist, doesn't mean they can't be shown the light.  good people can also turn into racists.

23 days ago
9/4/17
Posts: 15255
EFM -
William H Muncy -

My own grandfather said some racist shit about my father. Years later he apologized and I love him and rip. But it goes to show anyone can be racist and your can also forgive them.

 

...and just because someone is racist, doesn't mean they can't be shown the light.  good people can also turn into racists.

I gave the eulogy at his funeral. He was a good guy that raised my mom and her siblings. 

23 days ago
9/4/17
Posts: 15256
EFM -
William H Muncy -

My own grandfather said some racist shit about my father. Years later he apologized and I love him and rip. But it goes to show anyone can be racist and your can also forgive them.

 

...and just because someone is racist, doesn't mean they can't be shown the light.  good people can also turn into racists.

I totally agree 

23 days ago
10/16/10
Posts: 28379
EFM - 
Pura Vida -
EFM - 

daughter was talking to some friends after school and a black kid she didn't know walked up to her and asked if he could ride her bike.  she said no.  he said, 'it's because i'm black, isn't it'.  she again said no.  he then called her a racist in front of a group of kids and ran away.

i hate the idea of my kid getting picked on or name called in anyway, but that word really infuriates me, especially when my daughter has been friends with all races of kids her whole life.

fucking kids.  they're assholes.


Are you racist?

yes.  i was raised in a jewish family and am now athiest.  i'm intellectually and morally superior to pretty much everyone.


Lol well played.




So can I get a loan?
23 days ago
3/6/06
Posts: 29274
William H Muncy - 

How is is possible that people are calling efm racist? I'm really starting to think about posters here 


he used a variation of the "I have black friends" defense against being racist, which is pretty exclusive to racists.
Edited: 23 days ago
4/13/12
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Pura Vida -
William H Muncy - 

How is is possible that people are calling efm racist? I'm really starting to think about posters here 


he used a variation of the "I have black friends" defense against being racist, which is pretty exclusive to racists.

no i didn't.  i said my daughter did.  because she does.  because she went to an incredible and very diverse (economically and ethnically) elementary school.  it's all she's ever known.

i don't have any black friends, because as i responded to your original quesition above, I am racist, as you would be if you were me.

23 days ago
2/19/12
Posts: 1326

This your daughter?

 

 

23 days ago
4/13/12
Posts: 28449
itzeastman -

This your daughter?

 

 

No.

And damn.  Hope she didnt have plans for political office.  That kid and probably her kids are goi ng to be chased by that forever.