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Edited: 10/23/20 11:19 AM
11/18/15
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Not gonna send pics unless this thing with her sours. Not a troll or some shit like that. Genuinely curious what you guys think.

First met up with her last Sunday at Starbucks. There for almost an hour. We went to a petco after for her to buy some food for her cat and dog. Hugged after and made a dinner date plan for which is now tonight (and have made reservations). Texted a little bit noticed she’s a little distant with them. Wednesday we talked more and she suggested taking our dogs to the dog park closest to the both of us. Met her there around 6:30 at night. It was fun. She has a cute dog to. We both hadn’t eaten and went to a local Mexican place and ate outside in the patio there. Conversations great and feels comfortable. We talked again about going out Friday (again tonight). When we were saying goodbyes we hugged and we kissed. Felt very natural. She was smiles... She sent me a text saying she got home alright and how cute my dog is and she had a nice time. So Fucking pumped and high on myself. So much so I couldn’t sleep. Yesterday morning I sent her a pick of my dog when he was a puppy because he looked a lot like her dog. She sent a text back about how cute he is and if I saw some raccoons when we were leaving. I replied that I didn’t and then a funny thing about what we joked about at the Mexican place. That reply was sent to her yesterday at 10 in the morning. I haven’t received anything from her since. I haven’t sent anything since that one. 

Obviously hard imagining she may still be fucking some dudes or she’s just not that interested. I really like her. I’m just curious what you guys think. I was hoping to pick her up at her home later and take us to this place. I don’t want to send her a message when she hasn’t. I don’t know how she feels about me or how this is going for her. I know she was busy yesterday at least according to her. What do you suggest?

10/23/20 11:20 AM
2/1/13
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Well clearly you need to send her a dick pic.

10/23/20 11:20 AM
2/4/06
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Graduating High School first. 

10/23/20 11:21 AM
7/10/12
Posts: 7583

Text her again and ask if she’s still keen to catch up tonight 

Don’t worry about time beteeen her replies - it’s overthinking 

If she still doesn’t reply at least you tried, if she says she’d not interested at least you know and best case scenario she gets back in the affirmative 

10/23/20 11:21 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 105178

"Obviously hard imagining she may still be fucking some dudes or she’s just not that interested. I really like her."

 

If I answer honestly, you'll be engaged in a year aned living in a van down by the river in 5. 

 

10/23/20 11:21 AM
2/11/03
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Just leave it be man, you reached out, she hasn't it's on her to get back to you.
10/23/20 11:22 AM
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10/23/20 11:23 AM
4/27/15
Posts: 18435

She has a cute dog to

 

At this point, make her come to you.  Wait for her to text next, and don't seem desperate.  If the communication is not feeling natural, keep an eye on the exit door.  If she is flakey - fuck her dog and send her a pic of it and wish her a happy life..

10/23/20 11:26 AM
1/1/01
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Black Dougie - 

She has a cute dog to

 

At this point, make her come to you.  Wait for her to text next, and don't seem desperate.  If the communication is not feeling natural, keep an eye on the exit door.  If she is flakey - fuck her dog and send her a pic of it and wish her a happy life..


10/23/20 11:26 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 20349

Must be great now that you have a drivers license and Mom let you borrow the Mini-Van

10/23/20 11:27 AM
10/30/19
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DaveFu -

DAMMIT, lol....you literally beat me by one minute...

10/23/20 11:28 AM
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Homelander - 
DaveFu -

DAMMIT, lol....you literally beat me by one minute...


The ladies remain unimpressed! 

10/23/20 11:28 AM
10/30/19
Posts: 5014

OP, text her once this afternoon if you haven't heard from her then leave it alone completely.

10/23/20 11:31 AM
4/22/07
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I dont know man. I have a policy of never texting again without a reply. Too easy to be what the kids call a simp doing stuff like that. I used to all the time just because thats how I am with everyone else, but I dressed myself as a woman once and thought how pathetic it looked from a female pov.

10/23/20 11:33 AM
12/18/03
Posts: 27039

What's wrong with maning up and calling? 

Ask if she's still up for the night. 

If she's enthusiastic keep your plans. 

If she sounds distant or uninterested, cancel it and move on. 

It's not rocket surgery! 

10/23/20 11:34 AM
12/18/03
Posts: 27040

And get off my lawn! 

10/23/20 11:36 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 9382
Wtf is going on in this thread.

Assume the sale.

Text her, "what time should I pick you up tonight?"

Await developments. I suggest doing pushups while you wait.
10/23/20 11:39 AM
12/23/08
Posts: 36286

Don’t text her again.

 

Just show up to her house.

10/23/20 11:41 AM
2/29/16
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Hocky - 

Don’t text her again.

 

Just show up to her house.


Knock on window, not door.

10/23/20 11:46 AM
9/20/19
Posts: 5643

Not good. You likely already came on too strong. 

Girls are terrible at saying no and you really can’t have any idea of what they’re actually thinking in the beginnning regardless of how they act. 

Theyll go out with guys they don’t like simply to get out of the house, plus somebody else planned it and it’s free. Zero stakes sans the occasional rape/murder.  

10/23/20 11:46 AM
3/15/06
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Hocky -

Don’t text her again.

 

Just show up to her house.

For the next 2 weeks.

10/23/20 11:47 AM
9/19/04
Posts: 15969

If you met on a dating app, she has tons of other dudes in the mix. Many of them use dummies to get free meals every night. She has a rotation probably and new guys come in so she tests them out.

 

If you didn't meet on app, if she was still interested she would hit you up.

10/23/20 11:49 AM
7/24/15
Posts: 5819

Find her mom on social media, message her first.

10/23/20 11:50 AM
6/13/04
Posts: 12132
You are way too into a girl you just met.

That said, I would just text her asking her out. If she's into you she'll agree. If not, move on.
10/23/20 11:53 AM
3/15/06
Posts: 25093

Learn to lose interest in women by their behavior. One of the behaviors that should make you lose interest is if they aren't excited about you. Be the goal and make her want to attain you. As much as women think they want to be pursued they actually want to receive approval from someone that they feel isn't seeking theirs.