Prior to being married I was a serial cheater. It usually was the beginning of the end anyways, but I never took the high road. I always messed around and took the shitty way out. Been married almost 15 years now and have hardly had the urge to cheat, let alone following through with it.
In fact, it's been so long and out of my system I can't even imagine being in a situation where someone worth cheating with would WANT to cheat with a married husband with kids. Seriously, what kind of fucking sleaze would think sleeping with me would be a good idea at this point?
Maybe I just haven't spent enough time around women by myself in a long while. Like, WTF...I'm renting hotel rooms and meeting at restaurants far away from my house so I don't get caught? What a clusterfuck.
Feel free to share how you coaxed or got coaxed into cheating and how you made it work.