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11 days ago
1/6/14
Posts: 84

So my ex girlfriend got back in touch with me after a couple years.  Used to be best friends, made it from friend zone to end zone and we broke up and it crushed me. 

Shes coming over tonight, question is whether it's as friends like we used to be or to smash? Can someone go to the end zone twice?? Need the og masters to help!

Edited: 11 days ago
1/6/14
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11 days ago
3/10/10
Posts: 458

My guess is still as friends but let the wine and memories flow and see where it goes.

11 days ago
10/26/18
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11 days ago
9/26/10
Posts: 18435

you are probably fucked. ok to hang. just don't let her string you along. if she wants the d, you will know. if you have to convince yourself there might be something, there is nothing. 

11 days ago
12/29/09
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How would we know better than you? I'm guessing no smash.
11 days ago
1/6/14
Posts: 86
kingofpancakes80 - How would we know better than you? I'm guessing no smash.

I left for school for a couple years in Ireland after we dated, got in shape and then came back home.  I havent talked to her for 3 years I have no idea what shes thinking! She got in touch with me

11 days ago
3/4/10
Posts: 7845

No ex comes over just to hang out as friends. Get some weed/alcohol and she'll be ready to go to pound town. 

 

Just don't get #MeToo'd

11 days ago
1/6/14
Posts: 87
JitzInMyPants -

No ex comes over just to hang out as friends. Get some weed/alcohol and she'll be ready to go to pound town. 

 

Just don't get #MeToo'd

Vodka is on the table my friend!

11 days ago
7/13/17
Posts: 2973

You fucking tonight 

11 days ago
7/12/16
Posts: 349

Butt stuff, but I've heard it can be gritty. 

11 days ago
1/6/14
Posts: 88
BZtown10 -

You fucking tonight 

I hope so! 

11 days ago
4/27/11
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Pics?

11 days ago
6/21/13
Posts: 1315

She’s coming over for the D. So give her the D.

11 days ago
10/26/18
Posts: 657


Stop being so nervous!
SHE called YOU.
She already knows you. She already likes you.
Have some drinks and catch up.
Tell her some stories about being away.
Remember some good times before you left.
You're all grown up now with life experience. Confident not arrogant.
Have fun and see where things go.
RELAX.
11 days ago
12/29/09
Posts: 22519
younger1990 - 
kingofpancakes80 - How would we know better than you? I'm guessing no smash.

I left for school for a couple years in Ireland after we dated, got in shape and then came back home.  I havent talked to her for 3 years I have no idea what shes thinking! She got in touch with me


You seem uncertain, so I was just giving you shit. This should be a no brainer. A slam dunk from the freethrow line. Good luck, OP.
11 days ago
8/1/12
Posts: 8022

Tell her to bring over a bottle of her favorite wine and that you two will cook dinner together 

 

Hangout. Have fun. Hookup. 

 

Simple. You got this OP. Report back with results 

Edited: 11 days ago
11/9/05
Posts: 27909

All you have to do is refrain from acting like you are now.

She probably went through a recent breakup or something and wants that sweet affirmation bang. Have fun, but don't read too much into it.

11 days ago
9/26/10
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2 sprays of this. no problem.
11 days ago
6/29/09
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answer the door dressed like Christopher Walken in the Continental....
11 days ago
10/26/18
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11 days ago
7/14/17
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11 days ago
12/29/14
Posts: 1422

Shes putting herself back in your orbit because she's interested. Don't come off as needy or show her more interest than she shows you, and this is in the bag.

11 days ago
1/21/14
Posts: 6254

She's coming to tell you that she has AIDS and that you should get tested.

11 days ago
8/20/03
Posts: 140461
She's going to try and friend zone you.

Don't fall for it.

It's smash or don't come over.