Hate to break it to you fellas, but your version of "hard men" werent really hard. It's not the 1960s anymore. John wayne wasn't a badass, he just played one on tv a d he smelled like shit, eat like shit and woulda had his shit pushed in by anyone remotely athletic.
Power is in being educated, cultured and financially hung. No, that 40k pickup sitting in your driveway does not make you well off in anyone's eyes except the folks living in the trailer parks. 2020 seems like the world has gone crazy because the crazy have been left behind. Humanity is evolving right before our eyes. Men are getting away from using an attractive female as a sign of status of where they are in life. Instead, they've chosen themselves to improve. Through education, job choices, travel. In 2020 men dont sit around wondering why women choose the men they choose and proceed to put those particular men down to feel better about their own situation. Because in 2020, actual men do not give a fuck. Funny enough, that's the guy walking around with the girl you're so upset at not having.