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9/20/20 1:04 AM
6/4/06
Posts: 10086

My wife has seen me in about half of my MMA fights.

9/20/20 1:26 AM
2/12/14
Posts: 3854

 

close but no cigar. she parked in a busy place while I ran in and got gelato cones for us both. I came out and two frat boy types in a brand new Vette convertible were giving her a bunch of shit about her parking. I walked out and asked " what are you two faggots doing". lol. I had these two huge gelatos cones in my hand. wearing cargo shorts and ring t-shirt, red wing steel toes ankle boots. was swoll at the time, probably about 245 lbs. They muttered something. I was getting in the car, I had told them to go suck each others dicks. One of them muttered something. I got back out of the car still holding these big ass cones that were dripping and melting and shit. 

I said..... Do I need to put my ice cream down? serious as a mother fucker, like real question. They turned silent and slowly sat in their car, no response.   

 

It is one of my friends favorite stories. they always ask me to tell it when we are drinking and it is the punchline to all of our fake disputes. Do I need to put my ice cream down lives forever. 

9/20/20 1:51 AM
1/8/20
Posts: 279

Twice but I wish she’d never seen that side of me, neither fight was protecting her honour more just me seeing red when out drinking. Try to pride myself on being rational and fair and am always the guy who resolved conflicts amongst friends and family but it just didn’t work out that way those two times.

Interestingly enough, although she’s very anti violence we were out at dinner with other couples, drinks flowing and this exact topic came up and she recalled the memories with a weird sense of pride and sort of gloating to her girl friends that I can turn up the heat sometimes lmao

9/20/20 1:55 AM
1/1/12
Posts: 12227

To many to count. She hates it but understands as long as she wins all the verbal ones 

9/20/20 1:58 AM
8/9/07
Posts: 2932

Lol gotta love the OG

9/20/20 2:02 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 51383

In my 20’s I was in a softball game and I guy was talking shit. I said whatever you want. He was on first base and said “No after the game so no one breaks it up”. Like two pitches later the batter hits a lazy fly ball to left and dude starts walking to me (I was playing 3rd) and when he got within reach I punched him. He went down but the rest of his team swarmed. I was guesting for team I was playing on and only two guys backed me up. I stayed on my feet and still touched more than I got touched. More effect at least. 

My (then girlfriend) wife was yelling at my team telling them to get in there. 

Its the only time she saw me actually punch someone. I’ve stood a couple guys down with her around but it’s a rule that I try my hardest to not fight with my other around. My whole life. Now I’m old. I’m not getting into any fights unless it’s way unavoidable. 

Edited: 9/20/20 2:08 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 37350
Samoa - 

In my 20’s I was in a softball game and I guy was talking shit. I said whatever you want. He was on first base and said “No after the game so no one breaks it up”. Like two pitches later the batter hits a lazy fly ball to left and dude starts walking to me (I was playing 3rd) and when he got within reach I punched him. He went down but the rest of his team swarmed. I was guesting for team I was playing on and only two guys backed me up. I stayed on my feet and still touched more than I got touched. More effect at least. 

My (then girlfriend) wife was yelling at my team telling them to get in there. 

Its the only time she saw me actually punch someone. I’ve stood a couple guys down with her around but it’s a rule that I try my hardest to not fight with my other around. My whole life. Now I’m old. I’m not getting into any fights unless it’s way unavoidable. 

 

Last week you slammed that dude at the market grabbing all the corned beef pretty damn hard.

 

9/20/20 2:15 AM
9/29/18
Posts: 342
pahulkster -

Nah. I'm pretty composed. She thinks me being annoyed at something is me totally angry lol. I grew up with violence and she has no fucking idea, but that's not a bad thing. 

Hey me 

9/20/20 2:15 AM
3/27/20
Posts: 87

Closest thing was when this drunk asshole started cursing at a sushi chef. I escorted him to the door and he started getting aggressive so I threw him out on his ass. 

9/20/20 2:19 AM
5/3/20
Posts: 643

No, 

she hasn’t talked back to me yet surprisingly. That’ll be the day 

9/20/20 2:32 AM
7/2/09
Posts: 8273

Thankfully, no. The last time i got into a fight was in my 20's in TJ. Some guy and his friends started shit with me and my friends because we weren't local. Unfortunately for them, we all trained and were in our primes. We fucked them up. I beat one dude within an inch of his life, he might have died, i don't know because we got the hell out of the country immediately, and I've never been back to Mexico. I don't feel bad about it because one of them stabbed my friend, fortunately, it was superficial. I've never told my wife about it and i don't get involved in shit anymore unless it is a direct threat to me or her. I'm almost 40 now and it's just not worth it.

9/20/20 2:42 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 3503

L8er 

9/20/20 2:48 AM
1/11/06
Posts: 7603

Never a real fight. Back when we took karate together, sone dude swept her and she landed flat on her back. In the next round, I accidentally connected with the guys jaw; he got all woozy. My wife thought I did it for revenge; I knew I was gonna get laid that night.

9/20/20 3:01 AM
1/1/01
Posts: 66492

I've been the other guy. Rare that's its about a woman. You look at me and I seem like an easy target I guess but I'll throw the first punch 90% of the time. Something about being mexican and flight not being in DNA unless you see ICE.

Edited: 9/20/20 3:08 AM
5/3/01
Posts: 30810

yep

my wife's brother is one of those big bruiser type tma dudes. the kind of guy all the tricky tma moves work for not just because he's been practicing it in exquisite detail for 30 years, but because he's a naturally huge, naturally animal strong guy that could have walked in off the street and murdered any given person in any dojo he's ever been in if he'd wanted to.

bill walks around about 270 and, while he looks soft, you'd quickly find out he's built like a bag of quickcrete

i'm pretty sure her seeing me successfully meeet the need to handle myself early on in our relationship helped me get past that "can this guy protect me if i move from my family's care to his care?" question i think most women have built into their psychology when they choose a mate.

9/20/20 3:26 AM
8/28/10
Posts: 13765

Yes my wife has seen me fight (street) probably over 5x and not get beat up. 

She's seen me get my ass kicked badly in training and competition probably a hundred times. 

The last time she saw me fight she made the mistake of trying to stop me from sitting on the kid and punching his face (pulling me back and tying up my arms so I was fighting her in addition to the 3 guys) and it almost got me stabbed by his friend. This was maybe 8 years ago. She said only reason she tried to stop me was she was legit scared I would have beaten the 3 kids to death I guess I was hyper aggressive more so than ever before, but I was fighting 1 dude who had 2 buddies with him and one tried to step in from the side lol (they were probably late teens)

She realized then to just let me fight and we'll hire a high priced lawyer to get the case dismissed. I can't protect myself if I'm fighting her too

She jumped in for me once before when I got into a fight on a train. The guys mom tried to pull me off of him and hit me with something and she ended up fighting the mom

Every single woman I've had has always jumped in and started attacking whoever I'm fighting with me. 

9/20/20 4:00 AM
2/14/10
Posts: 14901

Yes. One time. It was not a good scene. It caused some legal issues, but it made our relationship even stronger.

9/20/20 4:02 AM
10/2/12
Posts: 10463

Ya, I’m pretty tough. 

9/20/20 4:06 AM
5/13/13
Posts: 2209

She's seen me KO a dude inside a gas station that was dressed like he came out of a Nelly video, guy was feeling up on a girl there and she was trying to get away from him, I confronted him, he started acting like he was about to get scrappy, put his right hand near his waist, looked to me like he was trying to grab something so I right hooked him, clean KO, his body went limp and dropped like a lifeless doll. I looked around to see if anyone was with him, I just saw the clerk and she said to get out of there before anyone showed up. As I was on my way out another guy in the gas station (I swear to God) ran up to the KO'd guy and had his once in a lifetime opportunity to say "you got knocked the fuck out!" Backing out of the gas station that same guy was wearing the KO'd dudes hat and was casually buying beer and the KO'd just got up and was stumbling out of the store, he had no idea what the fuck just happened.

 

My wife knows I had a rough and angry childhood and I tell her how much shit I use to get into, I think she thinks some of it is exaggerated cause of how much I've mellowed out since she's known me, she always says that I'm describing another person, after she saw that she said "wow, you just jumped out of the car, without hesitation and ran up on that guy and knocked him out cold and walked away and left like it was normal" 

She came from a good stable family and we were around where I grew up, she had never seen anything like that situation before. She got horny as fuck later and yes we had the sexy time. Lol

 

Still to this day though I think that guy had a gun and I got extremely fucking lucky it didn't turn out differently. That night humbled me, I realized how random shit happens and if I'm not careful about what I choose to involve myself in, it could cost me life.

 

Hero situation but I understand the reality of the consequences of being violent even if it's in good nature.

 

Funny addition, now when someone is irritating me she says please don't Circle K.O. them. (Circle K use to be a local gas station) my wife's got jokes y'all. It actually helps, cause I start laughing and lose my irritation.  

9/20/20 4:52 AM
1/30/05
Posts: 2474
I told her there would be three hits...

Me hitting him

Him hitting the floor

Kid Rock's “Bawitaba ” playing in the background
9/20/20 4:52 AM
2/20/09
Posts: 18690

Yup.

My wife has either cornered me or been at many of my fights.

She’s also seen me fuck up the occasional shitbag who deserves it.

She appreciates that I never start trouble, I just finish it.

9/20/20 4:53 AM
6/30/11
Posts: 23472

Not my wife or significant other. Some chick I met in Skegness (look it up) 

 

I was 16 I think, our romance was blossoming. She was staying on a different caravan site to me, and unbeknownst to me she had been getting unwanted attention from some jippos. She mentioned that they better fuck off or her boyfriend (meaning me I guess) would knock them out. 

 

Well I was walking with her one day in town and then a group of fucking jippos beat me up. I had a sovereign ring print on me forehead. Bitch. 

9/20/20 4:54 AM
6/30/11
Posts: 23473
donkypunch55 -

Yup.

My wife has either cornered me or been at many of my fights.

She’s also seen me fuck up the occasional shitbag who deserves it.

She appreciates that I never start trouble, I just finish it.

Does she let you donkey punch her?

9/20/20 5:41 AM
4/1/11
Posts: 2666

I fight gluttony everyday and she watches

9/20/20 7:50 AM
1/17/11
Posts: 1268

Yea, she’s seen me in a few fights.  Three MMA fights, along with a few outside of the cage.  
 

she was actually a ring card girl for a couple of my fights.