I’ve been married since 2007. Together with wife since summer 2006. In that time, she has never seen me in a fight. She has seen videos of wrestling, BJJ, and a fight or two from before that time, but never seen me fight in person. She’s also heard stories from friends and former teammates and stuff. She did see me and a buddy have a fun scrap once, but nothing serious. Has your wife/SO seen you fight for real? Did they treat you any differently afterwards? Did it change/improve/ruin your relationship?