You decided to marry a boat anchor who contributes no income and is high maintenance.
You thought it was a good idea to buy 10-15 pairs of gucci shoes to train in.
You have a new designer outfit every single time you make an appearance
You bought an out of warranty Mercedes AMG E-Class for probably close to sticker, when you should have bought a Camry or Accord. Sweet carbon fiber hood though bro!
I could go on but you get the point.
You're poor because you have terrible money management skills, not because you aren't paid enough.