King Trav -
Can you really blame her?
Yes I can.
It was the spring of 1987.
We had been dating seriously for a good few months.
We had been friends before we started dating and she said that she had seen me dating a few of her friends and always wanted to be my GF but was afraid I wouldn't be faithful. So when we hooked up at a party we started dating.
I got a job at a summer camp and she could have too but she didn't want to be away from her family for a few months.
So I met another girl at the camp, had teh sex, and came home and told her it was over.
If she had put out I may not have had sex with the other girl, or at least not told her I did.
You can see the blame is easily on both our shoulders.