You re killing it Windy. I love you man !
He really is! While I'm not currently paying for sex and haven't in over 10 years, he gets it. Totally.
My current plan is to have a couple of women that want a simple friend with benefits relationship for sex (mostly) and fun (occasionally) - I have those already. Not dimes, hell no, and not young pussy either, but they worship my dick and I bang them raw. I hate condoms so it is a big plus.
While still trying to pick up hot young women because well, it feeds my inner fire, I like doing so, it drives me. Trying to be a hot commodity to females keep us striving, in shape, groomed, disciplined, etc. even as this chase can also derail us from our purpose, so we must be careful to not overdo it.
Eventually, yeah my plan does include paying for some young hotties. As Windy explains, we older dudes with looks and game can get pussy, but it is so much work to bang young hotties, that yeah I can foresee paying for it in the near future.
Bonding and true relationship? Probably will never happen again with a woman. But I have my sons and old friends.