OtherGround Forums I banged 18 sugar babies in 4 months AMA

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I'll add some more material just to keep the fire crackling ..<br /><br />- amazing number of educated, well adjusted women on there. I have slept with girls getting phDs in hard sciences, writer for a local city magazine, med students, law school. No "pre-law" but law school, not "pre-med" but real doctors to be. My thought often is in 10 years this chick will probably be making more than me.<br />- you can sweeten the pot talking about real estate (home buying) or career choices or adult things - young women want to get some knowledge off you. This would apply to a girl you want to see more than once. Just if that is your desire.<br />- shocking how the vast majority of girls put their face pics out there. Some are like me where I only put hard to make out pics that show I'm not a fatty but nothing facial. But most are full on putting their faces out there asking for "allowances". I am always blown away by the openness<br />- there is an easy way to browse SA without giving your email. I'll expand if anyone is interested.<br />-I did a break down of the age groups in my town 18-21 around 35% of total girls looking. 22-25 42% 26-30 20% and cliff after that in fall off past 30. But I have been on match.com dates with like 3 women in their 40s who had posted on there (they didn't know I knew lol)<br /><br />fuck this is like a scholared up white paper. Not my intention to be so manner of fact but enough experience to spread around
4/1/20 10:02 AM
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Seems now a <\br/^lomp]>\. Lot of old dudes living their best fantasy ^¥he> life <]><< on this thread 

4/1/20 10:25 AM
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JustAnotherUser - I'll add some more material just to keep the fire crackling ..<br /><br />- amazing number of educated, well adjusted women on there. I have slept with girls getting phDs in hard sciences, writer for a local city magazine, med students, law school. No "pre-law" but law school, not "pre-med" but real doctors to be. My thought often is in 10 years this chick will probably be making more than me.<br />- you can sweeten the pot talking about real estate (home buying) or career choices or adult things - young women want to get some knowledge off you. This would apply to a girl you want to see more than once. Just if that is your desire.<br />- shocking how the vast majority of girls put their face pics out there. Some are like me where I only put hard to make out pics that show I'm not a fatty but nothing facial. But most are full on putting their faces out there asking for "allowances". I am always blown away by the openness<br />- there is an easy way to browse SA without giving your email. I'll expand if anyone is interested.<br />-I did a break down of the age groups in my town 18-21 around 35% of total girls looking. 22-25 42% 26-30 20% and cliff after that in fall off past 30. But I have been on match.com dates with like 3 women in their 40s who had posted on there (they didn't know I knew lol)<br /><br />fuck this is like a scholared up white paper. Not my intention to be so manner of fact but enough experience to spread around

Thx for keeping this alive. Do you pay per engagement or do you provide some type of allowance per week/month? Is your experience similar to OP’s in that the girls basically do anything you want in the sack?

4/1/20 10:43 AM
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"Thx for keeping this alive. Do you pay per engagement or do you provide some type of allowance per week/month? Is your experience similar to OP’s in that the girls basically do anything you want in the sack?"

I never would pay a per week/month. As soon as that cash hit their hand you'd probably never get a return call or text. I do what they call PPM (pay per meet). They will try to get you to commit to allowance but just say you are too busy to know how often you can meet. Vast majority will do PPM

As for anything in sack. I would say their behavior is like you were a boyfriend. I'm somewhat vanilla so I don't do anal. That usually is their only restriction. Never had a condom BJ either with one which I understand can be common with pros.

Again - the vast majority of these girls are low volume. Their ideal is one guy on the side.
The normal experience for a gal I would say is that they first encounter a guy who promises them the moon, gets his rocks off, tells them he cannot see them anymore. They go back on get a couple more guys under their belt and then get frustrated and leave the site. Most are one offs meaning they never come back after exiting the site.
So I guess my point is you are not getting with some high volume hooker.

Most girls are really cool - if you treat them nice they will do the same.

4/1/20 11:09 AM
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Average PPM cost?

4/1/20 11:24 AM
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up to this present crisis ..

anywhere from 250 to 400/500 is the range I'd say with a few wanting 1000 which his ridiculous.
Most would be down for drinks (and dinner if you want) and then go back in private for the night. So in terms of time commitment on her part could be a night for like 400. Or you could just go back in private which is my preference.


its getting cheaper by the day now (some will take 150 now)

4/1/20 11:43 AM
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JustAnotherUser - I'll add some more material just to keep the fire crackling ..<br /><br />- amazing number of educated, well adjusted women on there. I have slept with girls getting phDs in hard sciences, writer for a local city magazine, med students, law school. No "pre-law" but law school, not "pre-med" but real doctors to be. My thought often is in 10 years this chick will probably be making more than me.<br />- you can sweeten the pot talking about real estate (home buying) or career choices or adult things - young women want to get some knowledge off you. This would apply to a girl you want to see more than once. Just if that is your desire.<br />- shocking how the vast majority of girls put their face pics out there. Some are like me where I only put hard to make out pics that show I'm not a fatty but nothing facial. But most are full on putting their faces out there asking for "allowances". I am always blown away by the openness<br />- there is an easy way to browse SA without giving your email. I'll expand if anyone is interested.<br />-I did a break down of the age groups in my town 18-21 around 35% of total girls looking. 22-25 42% 26-30 20% and cliff after that in fall off past 30. But I have been on match.com dates with like 3 women in their 40s who had posted on there (they didn't know I knew lol)<br /><br />fuck this is like a scholared up white paper. Not my intention to be so manner of fact but enough experience to spread around

I would be interested in this browsing without email feature 

4/1/20 12:04 PM
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"I would be interested in this browsing without email feature "
you can always make up a free email through like protonmail.com which you can use if you ever join. However if you just want to browse ...

1) go to seeking.com
2) hit the "join" button
3) fill out the buttons I am a man/ looking for a woman/ looks & charm
then but in some BS email address example kdfuadfya@yahoo.com
and a BS birthdate
4) now there will be a # of screens where they try to get you to fill in info and all that - but in top right hit "skip for now"
5) keep hitting skip for now til it gets you to browse members, you can now put in your zip code or city and find local or just browse the entire world if you want.

so this bypasses any email validation that you might encounter with say a normal dating site - again just to browse (cannot email them).


ok - off to work life for now ...
4/1/20 12:40 PM
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JustAnotherUser - up to this present crisis ..

anywhere from 250 to 400/500 is the range I'd say with a few wanting 1000 which his ridiculous.
Most would be down for drinks (and dinner if you want) and then go back in private for the night. So in terms of time commitment on her part could be a night for like 400. Or you could just go back in private which is my preference.


its getting cheaper by the day now (some will take 150 now)


I love your posts, I really do, but $400 to bang one night is not exactly cheap LOL


Most of these gals get way too much for what they put in.

The looks, attitude and service better match the price.


$2000 a month for unlimited sex is better in that sense than a pay-per-meet deal. Of course if the girl is great.



4/1/20 5:15 PM
7/11/17
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JustAnotherUser - "I would be interested in this browsing without email feature "
you can always make up a free email through like protonmail.com which you can use if you ever join. However if you just want to browse ...

1) go to seeking.com
2) hit the "join" button
3) fill out the buttons I am a man/ looking for a woman/ looks & charm
then but in some BS email address example kdfuadfya@yahoo.com
and a BS birthdate
4) now there will be a # of screens where they try to get you to fill in info and all that - but in top right hit "skip for now"
5) keep hitting skip for now til it gets you to browse members, you can now put in your zip code or city and find local or just browse the entire world if you want.

so this bypasses any email validation that you might encounter with say a normal dating site - again just to browse (cannot email them).


ok - off to work life for now ...

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4/1/20 7:04 PM
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4/1/20 7:40 PM
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"I love your posts, I really do, but $400 to bang one night is not exactly cheap LOL


Most of these gals get way too much for what they put in.

The looks, attitude and service better match the price.


$2000 a month for unlimited sex is better in that sense than a pay-per-meet deal. Of course if the girl is great."

welcome on the posts - so 400 is expensive I agree. But that is the going price for a 22 year old 8-9. I usually talk them down to 300 or 350 but sometimes pass on hotties that won't budge. Most are 300 basically I'd say. If you are better looking or have some game you can get them to go lower. In current economy its gonna get cheaper for sure. Maybe 1/2 or a 1/3 less.

As for 2000 for unlimited. Its not like a buffet all you can eat. I guarantee the girls will not be on call and in fact be a pain to schedule at times. If you paid a gal that much my guess is you would get her to commit like 6x a month at absolute most.

I hear of all these NYC stories of Wall Street dudes and all that - cannot attest to that but the money exchanges and stories from that scene are a anomaly. I'm talking your major metro areas will distributed wealth (ie not Beverly Hills, NYC Manhattan, etc)
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I'm going to get off tomorrow - if you have anything else I'll try to answer.
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So how are you guys working SA now if you are not willing to have them come back to your house with hotels, motels and casinos all closed? 

4/1/20 8:13 PM
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Chappie - 

So how are you guys working SA now if you are not willing to have them come back to your house with hotels, motels and casinos all closed? 


Hotels still open in my town - not all of them.
Many more open to go to their place than before (not sure why)
4/1/20 8:17 PM
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Where the fuck is Wallace string??

 

Where's Wallace?

4/1/20 9:53 PM
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I have a really good friend I've known for 40 years, with a 20 year old daughter going into her 2nd year of college. I found out she is on a sugar site, and then found out an older guy I knew has fucked her about 4 times. He also was with her and a friend too. I didn't realize it was her until he showed me a photo. So get this, he's telling me about al the degrading things she is into, cum in the face, etc. And then 3 hours later I am at my friend's house and his "inncoent" daughter is there. lol My friend is conservative lifestyle, etc. He would die of a heart attack if he knew. I've known this girl since she was born. She told the guy she's met over 20 guys on there over the past couple years. lol
4/1/20 10:08 PM
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HotSteppa - I have a really good friend I've known for 40 years, with a 20 year old daughter going into her 2nd year of college. I found out she is on a sugar site, and then found out an older guy I knew has fucked her about 4 times. He also was with her and a friend too. I didn't realize it was her until he showed me a photo. So get this, he's telling me about al the degrading things she is into, cum in the face, etc. And then 3 hours later I am at my friend's house and his "inncoent" daughter is there. lol My friend is conservative lifestyle, etc. He would die of a heart attack if he knew. I've known this girl since she was born. She told the guy she's met over 20 guys on there over the past couple years. lol

You are a top poster. You always have something interesting or funny to say,

4/1/20 10:50 PM
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Someone give it to me simple

I signed up on seekingarrangement - chick wants to meet me is only 10 years younger(28, I'm 38).  I tried to ask up front what are you trying to get or you just want to meet?  She said I think we can click and have fun.  Was pretty forward about trying to meet up tonight, said she'd even drive.

I told her no and she was like what about tomorrow so I'm like why not.  She has been on there for 5 months.  Someone fire away the truth, she looks good but isn't out of reach good lucking, maybe younger for what I usually date.

4/1/20 11:34 PM
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I did the email thing for my area (college town). Oh my. I wish I had the money to throw around.
4/2/20 3:10 AM
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Road Warrior Fin - 

Someone give it to me simple

I signed up on seekingarrangement - chick wants to meet me is only 10 years younger(28, I'm 38).  I tried to ask up front what are you trying to get or you just want to meet?  She said I think we can click and have fun.  Was pretty forward about trying to meet up tonight, said she'd even drive.

I told her no and she was like what about tomorrow so I'm like why not.  She has been on there for 5 months.  Someone fire away the truth, she looks good but isn't out of reach good lucking, maybe younger for what I usually date.


There is a sizable population on there that are just down to fuck. No money involved. Don't ask me why but there is. Treat it as a normal date and get her hot and bothered. Make out. Ignore money talk til she brings it up. Say you don't have anything on you and go back to making out. She will probably fuck for free is my guess. Treat as a normal date!
4/2/20 3:13 AM
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I took a 27 year out to dinner. Charmed her and went back to her place. I got her hot and bothered and then when I took her pants off she said .. can you transfer some $ via Venmo. I said I don't have Venmo and said I best put my clothes back on. She was so hot and bothered that she said fuck it and I banged her for free lol!
4/2/20 4:45 AM
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JustAnotherUser - I took a 27 year out to dinner. Charmed her and went back to her place. I got her hot and bothered and then when I took her pants off she said .. can you transfer some $ via Venmo. I said I don't have Venmo and said I best put my clothes back on. She was so hot and bothered that she said fuck it and I banged her for free lol!

This. 

If you just treat them like normal girls, make them feel confortable, and generate a little interest the sky is usually the limit. 

Getting laid is not rocket science. 

4/2/20 9:13 AM
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Connorwinztharematch - 
JustAnotherUser - I took a 27 year out to dinner. Charmed her and went back to her place. I got her hot and bothered and then when I took her pants off she said .. can you transfer some $ via Venmo. I said I don't have Venmo and said I best put my clothes back on. She was so hot and bothered that she said fuck it and I banged her for free lol!

This. 

If you just treat them like normal girls, make them feel confortable, and generate a little interest the sky is usually the limit. 

Getting laid is not rocket science. 


Not rocket science, more like brain surgery.
4/2/20 9:26 AM
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Road Warrior Fin - 

Someone give it to me simple

I signed up on seekingarrangement - chick wants to meet me is only 10 years younger(28, I'm 38).  I tried to ask up front what are you trying to get or you just want to meet?  She said I think we can click and have fun.  Was pretty forward about trying to meet up tonight, said she'd even drive.

I told her no and she was like what about tomorrow so I'm like why not.  She has been on there for 5 months.  Someone fire away the truth, she looks good but isn't out of reach good lucking, maybe younger for what I usually date.


Nah....swing for the fences and then work your way down... don't know unless you try