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11/9/19 7:11 PM
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Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

11/9/19 7:12 PM
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MrChainBlueLightning -

What was the deciding factor between hotel and coming to your house?  Are you just renting a shitty room for a night?  I am assuming you don't even stay there.

 In the beginning it was strictly hotels and if it wasn't for the cost that is what I prefer. I brought a few girls at my house and these were girls that I met for the second time. It's just a feeling that I have. Girls feel safer to meet at hotels as do I. I live in a house so there is risk because you never know if the girls can case your place, if I lived in a condominium I would never book a hotel if they agreed to come to my place.

11/9/19 7:15 PM
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M1ke_Kn1ght -
Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

How hot were the girls on average? 

 

I was on Tinder and Bumble and lasted 2 weeks in each before I deleted my profiles. Sure there were girls that were interested but the majority were 3-5 on scale of 1-10 and single mom's.

 

I prefer banging girls 19-23. lol

11/9/19 7:16 PM
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Why so few? 

11/9/19 7:40 PM
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Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

How hot were the girls on average? 

 

I was on Tinder and Bumble and lasted 2 weeks in each before I deleted my profiles. Sure there were girls that were interested but the majority were 3-5 on scale of 1-10 and single mom's.

 

I prefer banging girls 19-23. lol

If those were the type of girls you were matching with and getting messages from on bumble and tinder, then you are not as attractive as you think you are. Especially if you're in a big city. Bumble, in particular, has a lot of hot women. 

Not trying to be an asshole, but first step in doing well on those sites is being honest with yourself so you can start improving. 

11/9/19 7:44 PM
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pbody -
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M1ke_Kn1ght -
Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

How hot were the girls on average? 

 

I was on Tinder and Bumble and lasted 2 weeks in each before I deleted my profiles. Sure there were girls that were interested but the majority were 3-5 on scale of 1-10 and single mom's.

 

I prefer banging girls 19-23. lol

If those were the type of girls you were matching with and getting messages from on bumble and tinder, then you are not as attractive as you think you are. Especially if you're in a big city. Bumble, in particular, has a lot of hot women. 

Not trying to be an asshole, but first step in doing well on those sites is being honest with yourself so you can start improving. 

There are hot woman on bumble, the woman that are hitting me up not so much. I got 40 messages in a week and I wasn't impressed. I consider myself to be  good looking, especially for my age. I am 43. I wonder if I lied and put I was 33 if that would get me more hits with hotter woman.

11/9/19 7:51 PM
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pbody -
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Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

How hot were the girls on average? 

 

I was on Tinder and Bumble and lasted 2 weeks in each before I deleted my profiles. Sure there were girls that were interested but the majority were 3-5 on scale of 1-10 and single mom's.

 

I prefer banging girls 19-23. lol

If those were the type of girls you were matching with and getting messages from on bumble and tinder, then you are not as attractive as you think you are. Especially if you're in a big city. Bumble, in particular, has a lot of hot women. 

Not trying to be an asshole, but first step in doing well on those sites is being honest with yourself so you can start improving. 

I think these sites get exponentially tougher to pull women as you get older and/or get out of big cities.  If you are in your 20s or 30s in a big city you are probably killing it.  If you're in your 40s and aren't in a big city, it is much tougher even if you are in fairly good shape and reasonably attractive.

 

I'm in my early 40s, in pretty good shape and am doing ok on Tinder and Bumble but it certainly isn't fishing with dynamite like I'd heard it would be and the women I am hanging with aren't 20-25 year old 8s like I could probably date in a SB arrangement.  However, I don't live in an urban area; maybe it would be different if I did.

11/9/19 7:55 PM
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pbody -
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Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

This

 

I've lost count of how many girls I've taken down off tinder and all it cost me was to keep renewing my Netflix membership. 

How hot were the girls on average? 

 

I was on Tinder and Bumble and lasted 2 weeks in each before I deleted my profiles. Sure there were girls that were interested but the majority were 3-5 on scale of 1-10 and single mom's.

 

I prefer banging girls 19-23. lol

If those were the type of girls you were matching with and getting messages from on bumble and tinder, then you are not as attractive as you think you are. Especially if you're in a big city. Bumble, in particular, has a lot of hot women. 

Not trying to be an asshole, but first step in doing well on those sites is being honest with yourself so you can start improving. 

Why be honest there when he's a lying sack of shit here? lol

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JayMan -
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YaoMingia -

Op, you really need to travel to Jaco, Costa Rica and go to Hotel Cocal and Casino. I've never seen anything like it. I walked into the bar and there were 100-200 beautiful working girls and maybe 10 guys in the entire place

I think I may do that. 

 

What is the going rate of the girls out there?

I'm going to medellin next week.   Even the hottest women will hang out for 2 or 3 hours for 200mil.   That's right at 60 bucks.   You can get women for 30 or less.....but why go cheap.  If i have gaps in my schedule I throw one of these in.   Some of them are insanely hot.   I'm having a 4some with 2 19 year olds and a 20 year old on my birthday.  They would all be 8-10s here.   Total? $150

Where do you stay? Is it dangerous in Colombia? 

 

I actually thought about having a foursome on my birthday. 

 

I was on SA and inquired about 3somes and they wanted between 600-1200. 

 

How was it having a foursome? Did you get off one load or multiple loads? If multiple loads were the girls going at it while your waiting to get it up? I would think 4some would be over kill.

 

I have not done a black girl on SA or had a 3some I think I will put them on my bucket list.

 

I haven't done it yet.  I fly out Sunday.  I can't really get multiple.   It takes me a long time anyway.  But, you can get as many as you want in the time limit you specify.   

If you want to message me for more info I'll share. Medellin is badass.   I got a nice room ($48 a night) but I don't take girls there.  That's my place.  I don't trust them.   I rent a cheaper room for the week or take them to a motel.   The motels there are badass.   They only rent the rooms in 3 hour increments and they are made for sex.   Mirrors, sex furniture, etc.  They are all themed.  Google "medellin sex motel".  You'll see what I mean.  They are actually very common in South America.   They are like $6 for 3 hours.  Most girls there give you 3 hours per visit for that reason.   The high end colombian escorts are professionals.   They go to the gym regularly, they insist on condoms, and most have recent test results if you ask.   Their attitude is great too.  I only use them if I pay for sex there.   There are street women and women in the bars and clubs that are as little as $10-20.  But they are Gross to me.  In some of the clubs there almost every woman inside is for sale.   They act like normal people but they have a different colored wrist band.

You need to try to look good though.   The high end women really only fuck the guys they would probably fuck anyway.  They will tell you no or ask a crazy amount if you are fat or ugly.

 

EDIT: medellin is safe, but people will try to scam you.   Don't get into a fight either.   If someone tried to start shit, just dick tuck and walk away.   If you get into a fight with the wrong people you will get jumped, and maybe cut or stabbed.  Just be polite and don't be stupid and you will be fine.   There are plenty of stupid gringos that don't realize that they advertise their gringo-ness.  They will draw most of the negative attention.  

 

11/9/19 8:01 PM
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All i learned from tbis thread is id rather my girl be an escort or a streetwalker. Fuck a dude trying to cone 3 to 5 times. 

11/9/19 9:00 PM
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For later.

11/9/19 9:53 PM
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MrChainBlueLightning -

What was the deciding factor between hotel and coming to your house?  Are you just renting a shitty room for a night?  I am assuming you don't even stay there.

 In the beginning it was strictly hotels and if it wasn't for the cost that is what I prefer. I brought a few girls at my house and these were girls that I met for the second time. It's just a feeling that I have. Girls feel safer to meet at hotels as do I. I live in a house so there is risk because you never know if the girls can case your place, if I lived in a condominium I would never book a hotel if they agreed to come to my place.

Don't ever let any of those bitches know where you live.

11/9/19 9:54 PM
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Fighting - 

All i learned from tbis thread is id rather my girl be an escort or a streetwalker. Fuck a dude trying to cone 3 to 5 times. 


He definitely is getting his moneys worth lol
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JayMan -
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YaoMingia -

Op, you really need to travel to Jaco, Costa Rica and go to Hotel Cocal and Casino. I've never seen anything like it. I walked into the bar and there were 100-200 beautiful working girls and maybe 10 guys in the entire place

I think I may do that. 

 

What is the going rate of the girls out there?

I'm going to medellin next week.   Even the hottest women will hang out for 2 or 3 hours for 200mil.   That's right at 60 bucks.   You can get women for 30 or less.....but why go cheap.  If i have gaps in my schedule I throw one of these in.   Some of them are insanely hot.   I'm having a 4some with 2 19 year olds and a 20 year old on my birthday.  They would all be 8-10s here.   Total? $150

Where do you stay? Is it dangerous in Colombia? 

 

I actually thought about having a foursome on my birthday. 

 

I was on SA and inquired about 3somes and they wanted between 600-1200. 

 

How was it having a foursome? Did you get off one load or multiple loads? If multiple loads were the girls going at it while your waiting to get it up? I would think 4some would be over kill.

 

I have not done a black girl on SA or had a 3some I think I will put them on my bucket list.

 

I haven't done it yet.  I fly out Sunday.  I can't really get multiple.   It takes me a long time anyway.  But, you can get as many as you want in the time limit you specify.   

If you want to message me for more info I'll share. Medellin is badass.   I got a nice room ($48 a night) but I don't take girls there.  That's my place.  I don't trust them.   I rent a cheaper room for the week or take them to a motel.   The motels there are badass.   They only rent the rooms in 3 hour increments and they are made for sex.   Mirrors, sex furniture, etc.  They are all themed.  Google "medellin sex motel".  You'll see what I mean.  They are actually very common in South America.   They are like $6 for 3 hours.  Most girls there give you 3 hours per visit for that reason.   The high end colombian escorts are professionals.   They go to the gym regularly, they insist on condoms, and most have recent test results if you ask.   Their attitude is great too.  I only use them if I pay for sex there.   There are street women and women in the bars and clubs that are as little as $10-20.  But they are Gross to me.  In some of the clubs there almost every woman inside is for sale.   They act like normal people but they have a different colored wrist band.

You need to try to look good though.   The high end women really only fuck the guys they would probably fuck anyway.  They will tell you no or ask a crazy amount if you are fat or ugly.

 

EDIT: medellin is safe, but people will try to scam you.   Don't get into a fight either.   If someone tried to start shit, just dick tuck and walk away.   If you get into a fight with the wrong people you will get jumped, and maybe cut or stabbed.  Just be polite and don't be stupid and you will be fine.   There are plenty of stupid gringos that don't realize that they advertise their gringo-ness.  They will draw most of the negative attention.  

 

Interesting man, let me know how it is. I was looking up medellin earlier and the place looks pretty sketchy. Would you recommend Joca beach Costa Rica or Medellin for a sex trip? 

 

I am good looking I don't think with they will turn me down for my looks lol. How much are the high end girls out there?

Where to find the high end woman? Are they at clubs or do you use a site?

 

Not looking to get into a fight out there. lol. I am a gringo will I stand out or are there other gringos around? 

11/10/19 12:47 AM
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Op, you really need to travel to Jaco, Costa Rica and go to Hotel Cocal and Casino. I've never seen anything like it. I walked into the bar and there were 100-200 beautiful working girls and maybe 10 guys in the entire place

I think I may do that. 

 

What is the going rate of the girls out there?

I'm going to medellin next week.   Even the hottest women will hang out for 2 or 3 hours for 200mil.   That's right at 60 bucks.   You can get women for 30 or less.....but why go cheap.  If i have gaps in my schedule I throw one of these in.   Some of them are insanely hot.   I'm having a 4some with 2 19 year olds and a 20 year old on my birthday.  They would all be 8-10s here.   Total? $150

Where do you stay? Is it dangerous in Colombia? 

 

I actually thought about having a foursome on my birthday. 

 

I was on SA and inquired about 3somes and they wanted between 600-1200. 

 

How was it having a foursome? Did you get off one load or multiple loads? If multiple loads were the girls going at it while your waiting to get it up? I would think 4some would be over kill.

 

I have not done a black girl on SA or had a 3some I think I will put them on my bucket list.

 

I haven't done it yet.  I fly out Sunday.  I can't really get multiple.   It takes me a long time anyway.  But, you can get as many as you want in the time limit you specify.   

If you want to message me for more info I'll share. Medellin is badass.   I got a nice room ($48 a night) but I don't take girls there.  That's my place.  I don't trust them.   I rent a cheaper room for the week or take them to a motel.   The motels there are badass.   They only rent the rooms in 3 hour increments and they are made for sex.   Mirrors, sex furniture, etc.  They are all themed.  Google "medellin sex motel".  You'll see what I mean.  They are actually very common in South America.   They are like $6 for 3 hours.  Most girls there give you 3 hours per visit for that reason.   The high end colombian escorts are professionals.   They go to the gym regularly, they insist on condoms, and most have recent test results if you ask.   Their attitude is great too.  I only use them if I pay for sex there.   There are street women and women in the bars and clubs that are as little as $10-20.  But they are Gross to me.  In some of the clubs there almost every woman inside is for sale.   They act like normal people but they have a different colored wrist band.

You need to try to look good though.   The high end women really only fuck the guys they would probably fuck anyway.  They will tell you no or ask a crazy amount if you are fat or ugly.

 

EDIT: medellin is safe, but people will try to scam you.   Don't get into a fight either.   If someone tried to start shit, just dick tuck and walk away.   If you get into a fight with the wrong people you will get jumped, and maybe cut or stabbed.  Just be polite and don't be stupid and you will be fine.   There are plenty of stupid gringos that don't realize that they advertise their gringo-ness.  They will draw most of the negative attention.  

 

Interesting man, let me know how it is. I was looking up medellin earlier and the place looks pretty sketchy. Would you recommend Joca beach Costa Rica or Medellin for a sex trip? 

 

I am good looking I don't think with they will turn me down for my looks lol. How much are the high end girls out there?

Where to find the high end woman? Are they at clubs or do you use a site?

 

Not looking to get into a fight out there. lol. I am a gringo will I stand out or are there other gringos around? 

They are on the site.   If you offer them 200mil ($60) most accept.  But most won't talk to you unless you are already in medellin. 

I've never actually gone on a sex trip.   A good friend of mine married a colombian woman years ago.  They have a family.  He's seen me date crazies and always suggested me try to date a colombian woman.  One of his wife's friends messaged me on Facebook.   We talked for a while and I visited her a few times.  She was 23, and gorgeous.   She was an accountant.   But she was 23 and acted like it so it didn't turn into anything long term.  About a month ago she messaged me out of the blue.   She's 27 now and has a US visa.   She seemed more mature and I have free time so i was going to visit her.   We had a falling out and I already had my plane ticket.  I decided to go have fun.   I was already on SA and decided to check out medellin since I was going.  I kind of stumbled onto it by accident.

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There are very attractive women in the clubs and strip clubs.   Both often have rooms for rent in the club and pretty much every woman there is working.   But, i assume they get a lot of traffic.  I prefer to have a woman fresh out of the shower that hasn't been working all night.  Most of the girls on SA really are college students trying to make some money behind their parents backs.

11/10/19 1:12 AM
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Favorite flavor?

I have always liked Latinas and Whites. I am open to banging all ethnicities however.

Racially he's pretty cool.

 

Wee Windy City Urban Achievers; young adults of promise but without the necessary means for a - necessary means for a higher education. So Mr Windy City is committed to sending all of them to college.

And proud we are of all of them 

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11/10/19 9:57 AM
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Why are they called sugar babes when it's straight up escort/prostitution? I thought sugar babes were like rented GF. More expensive, but you rented them for more than the sex, and they had only one to four dudes to milk their balls and wallets instead of doing the volume route.

Hey, I get paying for sex even if I haven't done it in years besides one BJ 6 weeks ago, no moral issue from my end, but I really thought sugar daddy/babe arrangements were different than hookers. Seems the same to me! What's the difference here?

11/10/19 10:13 AM
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Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

Not sure if serious. Middle aged men are not banging 18 year olds on the reg on tinder. Where did you get that idea from? If anyone here said they were doing that they are lying. 

You might find the odd 1 or 2 over the course of a year but that's about it and you gotta Wade through all the land whales and psychopaths. 


Damn true. I've banged a lot of gals on dating sites. Over 100 in fact. Hot ones are rare indeed, and hot 18 yo? Ha forget it. Most were very average single moms, as on par the course for who is on these sites! Hot young gals don't need dating sites...

In real life I actually have had some success, but online? I lie by 10 years about my age ha ha, as online women go with men their age or 10-15 older at the most. In real life? It doesn't matter as much. You're just a look and a number (age) online while in real life much more options open up.

Plus as so many of you guys have no game or are too shy, hotties can be approached easily at the grocery, hopping about, etc. While online the landwhales already have 50 guys hitting on them. Forget about the few hots in there! There have 100s of messages. Most of these hot ones are hookers anyway or exit these sites as they feel harassed.

Good thread but yeah, it's prostitution, not sugar babes. I see a Sugar Daddy future real near for me ha ha. There is a college near me and damn these college gals are HOT. I fully understand why OP is doing it. But it's not Sugar Daddy/Babe, it's escort service. Nothing wrong with that at all, but why play in the mindgame of gals that want to sugarcoat what they're doing by adding a false label?
11/10/19 10:29 AM
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I for one welcome our new Sugar Baby designation.

11/10/19 10:52 AM
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Sprawl'n'Stall - Why are they called sugar babes when it's straight up escort/prostitution? I thought sugar babes were like rented GF. More expensive, but you rented them for more than the sex, and they had only one to four dudes to milk their balls and wallets instead of doing the volume route.

Hey, I get paying for sex even if I haven't done it in years besides one BJ 6 weeks ago, no moral issue from my end, but I really thought sugar daddy/babe arrangements were different than hookers. Seems the same to me! What's the difference here?

The women call it that so they feel better about themselves.  "Sugar baby". "Escort".   It all sounds better than "hooker".  it's semantics.   But many of the SBs try to get you to pay them for their "conversation".    I don't know what the hell a 19 year old woman can say to me that's worth paying for.  A lot of them say no sex on the first meeting and want you to give them money and they will string you along for month's if you let them.   They do that to older, desperate men.  So now men pretty much demand sex on the first meeting.   
 

That's what SBs are supposed to be.    I guess the only real difference is SBs are more choosy about who they fuck.   

 

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rekt -
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Yes, I am paying for sex with girls between the ages of 18-29. I don't claim to be an expert ( guys like Rhino X2 have more experience with this) but will answer whatever questions you have.

 

 

250 for an hour or a night?

250 for about 1-2.5 hours some girls like to stay longer and talk. I have had two bad experiences were I blow a load and the girl wants to leave. This is why I never give them the money up front until I am satisfied. I made a mistake twice were the girls demanded the money up front and left within 30-40 minutes after me blowing one load. I usually blow 2-4. 


Curious - you actually WANT them to stay after finishing? I would have guessed that would be the time in your life when you LEAST want them sticking around lol.

Thanks!

No, not really. The majority of woman I really don't find interesting to be honest with you. I do like to get at least 2-3 loads in. So inbetween sessions there is conversations. I have had girls who stayed with me about 2 hours or so and I had to cut them short. A sweet spot for me is probably 75 minutes.

What supplements are you taking for these multi load performances? How old are you? Good shit buddy. I need to get my money right. Lol