Windy City -
You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?
Not sure if serious. Middle aged men are not banging 18 year olds on the reg on tinder. Where did you get that idea from? If anyone here said they were doing that they are lying.
You might find the odd 1 or 2 over the course of a year but that's about it and you gotta Wade through all the land whales and psychopaths.
Damn true. I've banged a lot of gals on dating sites. Over 100 in fact. Hot ones are rare indeed, and hot 18 yo? Ha forget it. Most were very average single moms, as on par the course for who is on these sites! Hot young gals don't need dating sites...
In real life I actually have had some success, but online? I lie by 10 years about my age ha ha, as online women go with men their age or 10-15 older at the most. In real life? It doesn't matter as much. You're just a look and a number (age) online while in real life much more options open up.
Plus as so many of you guys have no game or are too shy, hotties can be approached easily at the grocery, hopping about, etc. While online the landwhales already have 50 guys hitting on them. Forget about the few hots in there! There have 100s of messages. Most of these hot ones are hookers anyway or exit these sites as they feel harassed.
Good thread but yeah, it's prostitution, not sugar babes. I see a Sugar Daddy future real near for me ha ha. There is a college near me and damn these college gals are HOT. I fully understand why OP is doing it. But it's not Sugar Daddy/Babe, it's escort service. Nothing wrong with that at all, but why play in the mindgame of gals that want to sugarcoat what they're doing by adding a false label?
Great point about dating sites. I am 43 years old and am good looking especially for my age but when the girls see 43 I think they automatically swipe left. Many on here will say I pick up 22 year old girls on Tinder all the time, but I am not sure if I am buying that if you're in your 40's and putting on your real age. I may go back to bumble and put 33 on my profile and see what happens. I had like a 28 year old HB 7 hit me up but it never went anywere. As you said all the girls that hit me up were all girls that I would pull a hit and run on is I had drinks at it's 2am. Is not worth the hassle of setting up dates and talking to them.
As far as sugar daddy vs prostitution. The girls in my opinion get in with a dream of having a guy pay their rent, all their bills, and gie them a fancy lifestyle. They are thinking like they are going to meet a Richard Gere on pretty woman.The problem is there are very few guys willing to do that. Men want variety so the sugar lifestyle plays against them. These girls make 200-40 dollars for an hours worth of work and they see how easy and good the money is and they essentially become escorts who prefer a long time arrangement type of deal but are not going to trun down 200-400 for a one time deal. Many of these girls are also eager to please because they prefer to see the same customer multiple times.
Do it! Put a younger age. You'll be shocked at the difference. Of course you have to look the part but still. And some gals have actually said to me I look younger in real life... while I already lie LOL Now that's an ego boost LOL
Jacinto has a real point that with filters many younger gals won't easy see your profile if you are too old for them... while you wouldn't be too old for them in real life.
As for sugar babes, no way I'd pay money just to talk! And you have to be a fucking loser (and really bad at bargaining!) to let the SB set rules such as no sex on the first meeting. It's not a date! It's prostitution! But let's face it: if they try to do this is because some fools allow it.
If the gals only do it a few times a month and actually select their clients, they really do make an intelligent use of their value and power as sexy young things. But what a cold heartless world. And to think women want equality of income yet still make men pay!