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11/10/19 11:00 AM
10/19/12
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JayMan -
Sprawl'n'Stall - Why are they called sugar babes when it's straight up escort/prostitution? I thought sugar babes were like rented GF. More expensive, but you rented them for more than the sex, and they had only one to four dudes to milk their balls and wallets instead of doing the volume route.

Hey, I get paying for sex even if I haven't done it in years besides one BJ 6 weeks ago, no moral issue from my end, but I really thought sugar daddy/babe arrangements were different than hookers. Seems the same to me! What's the difference here?

The women call it that so they feel better about themselves.  "Sugar baby". "Escort".   It all sounds better than "hooker".  it's semantics.   But many of the SBs try to get you to pay them for their "conversation".    I don't know what the hell a 19 year old woman can say to me that's worth paying for.  A lot of them say no sex on the first meeting and want you to give them money and they will string you along for month's if you let them.   They do that to older, desperate men.  So now men pretty much demand sex on the first meeting.   
 

That's what SBs are supposed to be.    I guess the only real difference is SBs are more choosy about who they fuck.   

 

A real sugar baby wants you to take her to dinner and get her drunk before you fuck her. The ones homeboy is fucking are straight up hookers, not that there's anything wrong with that. Seeking arrangement is full of both. 

11/10/19 11:14 AM
4/9/19
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Pat Giles -
JayMan -
Sprawl'n'Stall - Why are they called sugar babes when it's straight up escort/prostitution? I thought sugar babes were like rented GF. More expensive, but you rented them for more than the sex, and they had only one to four dudes to milk their balls and wallets instead of doing the volume route.

Hey, I get paying for sex even if I haven't done it in years besides one BJ 6 weeks ago, no moral issue from my end, but I really thought sugar daddy/babe arrangements were different than hookers. Seems the same to me! What's the difference here?

The women call it that so they feel better about themselves.  "Sugar baby". "Escort".   It all sounds better than "hooker".  it's semantics.   But many of the SBs try to get you to pay them for their "conversation".    I don't know what the hell a 19 year old woman can say to me that's worth paying for.  A lot of them say no sex on the first meeting and want you to give them money and they will string you along for month's if you let them.   They do that to older, desperate men.  So now men pretty much demand sex on the first meeting.   
 

That's what SBs are supposed to be.    I guess the only real difference is SBs are more choosy about who they fuck.   

 

A real sugar baby wants you to take her to dinner and get her drunk before you fuck her. The ones homeboy is fucking are straight up hookers, not that there's anything wrong with that. Seeking arrangement is full of both. 

I've never met a real sugar baby on that website then.   Here its either hookers or "platonic" Sugar babies.

11/10/19 11:30 AM
9/18/13
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Floppy Divac -
Windy City -
PwnedCakes -
Windy City - 
rekt -
Windy City -

Yes, I am paying for sex with girls between the ages of 18-29. I don't claim to be an expert ( guys like Rhino X2 have more experience with this) but will answer whatever questions you have.

 

 

250 for an hour or a night?

250 for about 1-2.5 hours some girls like to stay longer and talk. I have had two bad experiences were I blow a load and the girl wants to leave. This is why I never give them the money up front until I am satisfied. I made a mistake twice were the girls demanded the money up front and left within 30-40 minutes after me blowing one load. I usually blow 2-4. 


Curious - you actually WANT them to stay after finishing? I would have guessed that would be the time in your life when you LEAST want them sticking around lol.

Thanks!

No, not really. The majority of woman I really don't find interesting to be honest with you. I do like to get at least 2-3 loads in. So inbetween sessions there is conversations. I have had girls who stayed with me about 2 hours or so and I had to cut them short. A sweet spot for me is probably 75 minutes.

What supplements are you taking for these multi load performances? How old are you? Good shit buddy. I need to get my money right. Lol

I also would like to know this and how to get trt. I had my test checked and it was high range, so no way I could convince my normal dr to hook a brother up.

11/10/19 11:44 AM
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So at what age are they no longer considered sugar babies?

26?

11/10/19 11:44 AM
5/8/09
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I guess the difference is these chicks don't have pimps and they choose who they will fuck for money. 

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11/10/19 12:15 PM
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CRE -

As long as they're not being forced to do something they don't want to idgaf.

11/10/19 12:24 PM
2/12/14
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Sprawl'n'Stall -
Jayn200 - 
Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

Not sure if serious. Middle aged men are not banging 18 year olds on the reg on tinder. Where did you get that idea from? If anyone here said they were doing that they are lying. 

You might find the odd 1 or 2 over the course of a year but that's about it and you gotta Wade through all the land whales and psychopaths. 


Damn true. I've banged a lot of gals on dating sites. Over 100 in fact. Hot ones are rare indeed, and hot 18 yo? Ha forget it. Most were very average single moms, as on par the course for who is on these sites! Hot young gals don't need dating sites...

In real life I actually have had some success, but online? I lie by 10 years about my age ha ha, as online women go with men their age or 10-15 older at the most. In real life? It doesn't matter as much. You're just a look and a number (age) online while in real life much more options open up.

Plus as so many of you guys have no game or are too shy, hotties can be approached easily at the grocery, hopping about, etc. While online the landwhales already have 50 guys hitting on them. Forget about the few hots in there! There have 100s of messages. Most of these hot ones are hookers anyway or exit these sites as they feel harassed.

Good thread but yeah, it's prostitution, not sugar babes. I see a Sugar Daddy future real near for me ha ha. There is a college near me and damn these college gals are HOT. I fully understand why OP is doing it. But it's not Sugar Daddy/Babe, it's escort service. Nothing wrong with that at all, but why play in the mindgame of gals that want to sugarcoat what they're doing by adding a false label?

Great point about dating sites. I am 43 years old and am good looking especially for my age but when the girls see 43 I think they automatically swipe left. Many on here will say I pick up 22 year old girls on Tinder all the time, but I am not sure if I am buying that if you're in your 40's and putting on your real age. I may go back to bumble and put 33 on my profile and see what happens. I had like a 28 year old HB 7 hit me up but it never went anywere. As you said all the girls that hit me up were all girls that I would pull a hit and run on is I had drinks at it's 2am. Is not worth the hassle of setting up dates and talking to them.

 

As far as sugar daddy vs prostitution. The girls in my opinion get in with a dream of having a guy pay their rent, all their bills, and gie them a fancy lifestyle. They are thinking like they are going to meet a Richard Gere on pretty woman.The  problem is there are very few guys willing to do that. Men want variety so the sugar lifestyle plays against them. These girls make 200-40 dollars for an hours worth of work and they see how easy and good the money is and they essentially become escorts who prefer a long time arrangement type of deal but are not going to trun down 200-400 for a one time deal. Many of these girls are also eager to please because they prefer to see the same customer multiple times.

 

11/10/19 12:25 PM
2/12/14
Posts: 1545
CRE - So at what age are they no longer considered sugar babies?

26?

There are sugar babies in their 50's the oldest one I have been with was 29.

11/10/19 12:27 PM
2/12/14
Posts: 1546
JayMan -
Pat Giles -
JayMan -
Sprawl'n'Stall - Why are they called sugar babes when it's straight up escort/prostitution? I thought sugar babes were like rented GF. More expensive, but you rented them for more than the sex, and they had only one to four dudes to milk their balls and wallets instead of doing the volume route.

Hey, I get paying for sex even if I haven't done it in years besides one BJ 6 weeks ago, no moral issue from my end, but I really thought sugar daddy/babe arrangements were different than hookers. Seems the same to me! What's the difference here?

The women call it that so they feel better about themselves.  "Sugar baby". "Escort".   It all sounds better than "hooker".  it's semantics.   But many of the SBs try to get you to pay them for their "conversation".    I don't know what the hell a 19 year old woman can say to me that's worth paying for.  A lot of them say no sex on the first meeting and want you to give them money and they will string you along for month's if you let them.   They do that to older, desperate men.  So now men pretty much demand sex on the first meeting.   
 

That's what SBs are supposed to be.    I guess the only real difference is SBs are more choosy about who they fuck.   

 

A real sugar baby wants you to take her to dinner and get her drunk before you fuck her. The ones homeboy is fucking are straight up hookers, not that there's anything wrong with that. Seeking arrangement is full of both. 

I've never met a real sugar baby on that website then.   Here its either hookers or "platonic" Sugar babies.

I have had 10's tell them that they are not prostitutes and will only do monthly allowances. I tell them I am not looking for that and prefer a pay per meet with intimacy to see how things go first.

Also, many girls who are 10's in my area will ask for between 700-1000. I would never pay that.

11/10/19 12:29 PM
2/12/14
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Floppy Divac -
Windy City -
PwnedCakes -
Windy City - 
rekt -
Windy City -

Yes, I am paying for sex with girls between the ages of 18-29. I don't claim to be an expert ( guys like Rhino X2 have more experience with this) but will answer whatever questions you have.

 

 

250 for an hour or a night?

250 for about 1-2.5 hours some girls like to stay longer and talk. I have had two bad experiences were I blow a load and the girl wants to leave. This is why I never give them the money up front until I am satisfied. I made a mistake twice were the girls demanded the money up front and left within 30-40 minutes after me blowing one load. I usually blow 2-4. 


Curious - you actually WANT them to stay after finishing? I would have guessed that would be the time in your life when you LEAST want them sticking around lol.

Thanks!

No, not really. The majority of woman I really don't find interesting to be honest with you. I do like to get at least 2-3 loads in. So inbetween sessions there is conversations. I have had girls who stayed with me about 2 hours or so and I had to cut them short. A sweet spot for me is probably 75 minutes.

What supplements are you taking for these multi load performances? How old are you? Good shit buddy. I need to get my money right. Lol

I am on TRT and when I hook up with these girls I take 20mg of Cialis. Sometimes I also smoke weed which enhances the sexual experience for me. I feel like I am 18 with this cocktail.

11/10/19 12:55 PM
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How much of your personal information do you have to provide to the website?

 

Why hotels and not your home? 

 

Thx

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SlyStallowned -
blupitt - 
SlyStallowned - Is this your first time watching boxing?<br /><br />Hahaha, this is neither the first nor last shitty decision in boxing. But it will invariably lead to the instant re-match which will draw even more $$.<br /><br />
Yeah but someone like PAC man who clearly won? If they were trying to do that they would give a split decision to paq and set up rematch. <img src="/images/phone/apple.png" alt="Phone Post" border="0" style="vertical-align:middle;"/>


Huh? Why would they do a rematch of a split decision win for Manny (one that most people believe he won 10-11 rounds of) when no one watching thought that Bradley even came close to winning?? Thats like saying Jake Shields deserved a rematch with GSP after their fight....

Manny now has a "loss" to Bradley, and people want to see him avenge this BS decision. Thats how it works.
No they won't bc everyone knows he didn't lose. If ur gonna rob someone at least make it remotely close Phone Post
11/10/19 1:05 PM
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In for ummmm..."research"...proceed

11/10/19 1:09 PM
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Windy City - 
Sprawl'n'Stall -
Jayn200 - 
Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

Not sure if serious. Middle aged men are not banging 18 year olds on the reg on tinder. Where did you get that idea from? If anyone here said they were doing that they are lying. 

You might find the odd 1 or 2 over the course of a year but that's about it and you gotta Wade through all the land whales and psychopaths. 


Damn true. I've banged a lot of gals on dating sites. Over 100 in fact. Hot ones are rare indeed, and hot 18 yo? Ha forget it. Most were very average single moms, as on par the course for who is on these sites! Hot young gals don't need dating sites...

In real life I actually have had some success, but online? I lie by 10 years about my age ha ha, as online women go with men their age or 10-15 older at the most. In real life? It doesn't matter as much. You're just a look and a number (age) online while in real life much more options open up.

Plus as so many of you guys have no game or are too shy, hotties can be approached easily at the grocery, hopping about, etc. While online the landwhales already have 50 guys hitting on them. Forget about the few hots in there! There have 100s of messages. Most of these hot ones are hookers anyway or exit these sites as they feel harassed.

Good thread but yeah, it's prostitution, not sugar babes. I see a Sugar Daddy future real near for me ha ha. There is a college near me and damn these college gals are HOT. I fully understand why OP is doing it. But it's not Sugar Daddy/Babe, it's escort service. Nothing wrong with that at all, but why play in the mindgame of gals that want to sugarcoat what they're doing by adding a false label?

Great point about dating sites. I am 43 years old and am good looking especially for my age but when the girls see 43 I think they automatically swipe left. Many on here will say I pick up 22 year old girls on Tinder all the time, but I am not sure if I am buying that if you're in your 40's and putting on your real age. I may go back to bumble and put 33 on my profile and see what happens. I had like a 28 year old HB 7 hit me up but it never went anywere. As you said all the girls that hit me up were all girls that I would pull a hit and run on is I had drinks at it's 2am. Is not worth the hassle of setting up dates and talking to them.

 

As far as sugar daddy vs prostitution. The girls in my opinion get in with a dream of having a guy pay their rent, all their bills, and gie them a fancy lifestyle. They are thinking like they are going to meet a Richard Gere on pretty woman.The  problem is there are very few guys willing to do that. Men want variety so the sugar lifestyle plays against them. These girls make 200-40 dollars for an hours worth of work and they see how easy and good the money is and they essentially become escorts who prefer a long time arrangement type of deal but are not going to trun down 200-400 for a one time deal. Many of these girls are also eager to please because they prefer to see the same customer multiple times.

 


All the dating websites and apps have search screeners and i imagine most of the women in their 20's will probably have their max age set on their matches to 28 or so and will never even see your profile if you are older than that.
11/10/19 1:20 PM
11/10/18
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Windy City -
camal -

How much of your personal information do you have to provide to the website?

 

Why hotels and not your home? 

 

Thx

You need credit card information, other than that not much. 

 

In the beginning I didn't want these girls to know were I live. I never did this and didn't know what I was getting myself into. I am still not 100 percent comfortable bringing these girls in my home because they are strangers. That being said I live in a single family home, if I lived in bigger building with multiple units I wouldn't have a problem inviting them over. You never know if they could be casing your house I guess, but none of them gave me that impression.

Last time I'm going to say this, do not let these whores know where you live. You are begging to get robbed and possibly killed. 
If a girl will sell her pussy for $200 then she's clearly broke and desperate. Broke and desperate people run with other broke and desperate people, some of which are men. They will absolutely fucking rob you. My brother has owned several strip clubs for the past 15 years and I promise you it's the exact same girls or the same type of girls and I know what I'm talking about. Fuck them at a hotel and you should be fine. Don't drink anything they've touched while you're with them and leave your credit cards and valuables at home or in your car. Just take the cash you're gonna owe and maybe $100 more. For god's sake, don't get so comfortable with this that you think you're dealing with normal people. For a girl to sell pussy, she's burned every single other bridge in her life so just don't be stupid. 

11/10/19 1:46 PM
2/12/14
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Eskimo -
Windy City -
camal -

How much of your personal information do you have to provide to the website?

 

Why hotels and not your home? 

 

Thx

You need credit card information, other than that not much. 

 

In the beginning I didn't want these girls to know were I live. I never did this and didn't know what I was getting myself into. I am still not 100 percent comfortable bringing these girls in my home because they are strangers. That being said I live in a single family home, if I lived in bigger building with multiple units I wouldn't have a problem inviting them over. You never know if they could be casing your house I guess, but none of them gave me that impression.

Last time I'm going to say this, do not let these whores know where you live. You are begging to get robbed and possibly killed. 
If a girl will sell her pussy for $200 then she's clearly broke and desperate. Broke and desperate people run with other broke and desperate people, some of which are men. They will absolutely fucking rob you. My brother has owned several strip clubs for the past 15 years and I promise you it's the exact same girls or the same type of girls and I know what I'm talking about. Fuck them at a hotel and you should be fine. Don't drink anything they've touched while you're with them and leave your credit cards and valuables at home or in your car. Just take the cash you're gonna owe and maybe $100 more. For god's sake, don't get so comfortable with this that you think you're dealing with normal people. For a girl to sell pussy, she's burned every single other bridge in her life so just don't be stupid. 

Thanks brother for your concern. That is always a possibility that being said I am extremely street smart, but I understand anything can happen. So far my experiences have been great! The majority of these girls don't want any drama, but yes whenever you are dealing in things such as sex and drugs there is an increased risk for these type of things to happen.

 

11/10/19 4:25 PM
12/26/12
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8 pages and no pics OP? 

Edited: 11/10/19 5:17 PM
12/13/11
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I have had some tinder girls approach me with the idea being my sugar baby. I giggle inside because usually they are borderline one time fuckable and I dont have to pay for any sex since I look like a fitness model and have a 10 inch cock. I play along though and tell them I want an audition. I let them suck my dick then never talk to them again. what's stopping you from doing that OP? do they have pimps you're worried about? 

11/10/19 5:23 PM
7/10/02
Posts: 22049
Windy City - 
Sprawl'n'Stall -
Jayn200 - 
Jhay -

You realize banging girls for free on tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel right? Why do you choose this instead?

Not sure if serious. Middle aged men are not banging 18 year olds on the reg on tinder. Where did you get that idea from? If anyone here said they were doing that they are lying. 

You might find the odd 1 or 2 over the course of a year but that's about it and you gotta Wade through all the land whales and psychopaths. 


Damn true. I've banged a lot of gals on dating sites. Over 100 in fact. Hot ones are rare indeed, and hot 18 yo? Ha forget it. Most were very average single moms, as on par the course for who is on these sites! Hot young gals don't need dating sites...

In real life I actually have had some success, but online? I lie by 10 years about my age ha ha, as online women go with men their age or 10-15 older at the most. In real life? It doesn't matter as much. You're just a look and a number (age) online while in real life much more options open up.

Plus as so many of you guys have no game or are too shy, hotties can be approached easily at the grocery, hopping about, etc. While online the landwhales already have 50 guys hitting on them. Forget about the few hots in there! There have 100s of messages. Most of these hot ones are hookers anyway or exit these sites as they feel harassed.

Good thread but yeah, it's prostitution, not sugar babes. I see a Sugar Daddy future real near for me ha ha. There is a college near me and damn these college gals are HOT. I fully understand why OP is doing it. But it's not Sugar Daddy/Babe, it's escort service. Nothing wrong with that at all, but why play in the mindgame of gals that want to sugarcoat what they're doing by adding a false label?

Great point about dating sites. I am 43 years old and am good looking especially for my age but when the girls see 43 I think they automatically swipe left. Many on here will say I pick up 22 year old girls on Tinder all the time, but I am not sure if I am buying that if you're in your 40's and putting on your real age. I may go back to bumble and put 33 on my profile and see what happens. I had like a 28 year old HB 7 hit me up but it never went anywere. As you said all the girls that hit me up were all girls that I would pull a hit and run on is I had drinks at it's 2am. Is not worth the hassle of setting up dates and talking to them.

 

As far as sugar daddy vs prostitution. The girls in my opinion get in with a dream of having a guy pay their rent, all their bills, and gie them a fancy lifestyle. They are thinking like they are going to meet a Richard Gere on pretty woman.The  problem is there are very few guys willing to do that. Men want variety so the sugar lifestyle plays against them. These girls make 200-40 dollars for an hours worth of work and they see how easy and good the money is and they essentially become escorts who prefer a long time arrangement type of deal but are not going to trun down 200-400 for a one time deal. Many of these girls are also eager to please because they prefer to see the same customer multiple times.

 


Do it! Put a younger age. You'll be shocked at the difference. Of course you have to look the part but still. And some gals have actually said to me I look younger in real life... while I already lie LOL Now that's an ego boost LOL

Jacinto has a real point that with filters many younger gals won't easy see your profile if you are too old for them... while you wouldn't be too old for them in real life.

As for sugar babes, no way I'd pay money just to talk! And you have to be a fucking loser (and really bad at bargaining!) to let the SB set rules such as no sex on the first meeting. It's not a date! It's prostitution! But let's face it: if they try to do this is because some fools allow it.

If the gals only do it a few times a month and actually select their clients, they really do make an intelligent use of their value and power as sexy young things. But what a cold heartless world. And to think women want equality of income yet still make men pay!
11/10/19 5:45 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 10575
Windy City -
camal -

How much of your personal information do you have to provide to the website?

 

Why hotels and not your home? 

 

Thx

You need credit card information, other than that not much. 

 

In the beginning I didn't want these girls to know were I live. I never did this and didn't know what I was getting myself into. I am still not 100 percent comfortable bringing these girls in my home because they are strangers. That being said I live in a single family home, if I lived in bigger building with multiple units I wouldn't have a problem inviting them over. You never know if they could be casing your house I guess, but none of them gave me that impression.

Thank you brother!

11/10/19 5:48 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 10576
Eskimo -
Windy City -
camal -

How much of your personal information do you have to provide to the website?

 

Why hotels and not your home? 

 

Thx

You need credit card information, other than that not much. 

 

In the beginning I didn't want these girls to know were I live. I never did this and didn't know what I was getting myself into. I am still not 100 percent comfortable bringing these girls in my home because they are strangers. That being said I live in a single family home, if I lived in bigger building with multiple units I wouldn't have a problem inviting them over. You never know if they could be casing your house I guess, but none of them gave me that impression.

Last time I'm going to say this, do not let these whores know where you live. You are begging to get robbed and possibly killed. 
If a girl will sell her pussy for $200 then she's clearly broke and desperate. Broke and desperate people run with other broke and desperate people, some of which are men. They will absolutely fucking rob you. My brother has owned several strip clubs for the past 15 years and I promise you it's the exact same girls or the same type of girls and I know what I'm talking about. Fuck them at a hotel and you should be fine. Don't drink anything they've touched while you're with them and leave your credit cards and valuables at home or in your car. Just take the cash you're gonna owe and maybe $100 more. For god's sake, don't get so comfortable with this that you think you're dealing with normal people. For a girl to sell pussy, she's burned every single other bridge in her life so just don't be stupid. 

Got it! Thank you bro!

11/10/19 6:02 PM
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JayMan -
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YaoMingia -

Op, you really need to travel to Jaco, Costa Rica and go to Hotel Cocal and Casino. I've never seen anything like it. I walked into the bar and there were 100-200 beautiful working girls and maybe 10 guys in the entire place

I think I may do that. 

 

What is the going rate of the girls out there?

I'm going to medellin next week.   Even the hottest women will hang out for 2 or 3 hours for 200mil.   That's right at 60 bucks.   You can get women for 30 or less.....but why go cheap.  If i have gaps in my schedule I throw one of these in.   Some of them are insanely hot.   I'm having a 4some with 2 19 year olds and a 20 year old on my birthday.  They would all be 8-10s here.   Total? $150

 

11/10/19 6:03 PM
10/31/19
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Paying for pussy in 2019 lol!!! 

11/10/19 6:05 PM
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Posts: 5030
Neil McCauley -

I have had some tinder girls approach me with the idea being my sugar baby. I giggle inside because usually they are borderline one time fuckable and I dont have to pay for any sex since I look like a fitness model and have a 10 inch cock. I play along though and tell them I want an audition. I let them suck my dick then never talk to them again. what's stopping you from doing that OP? do they have pimps you're worried about? 

Don't you feel guility going home to your husband after messing around with these chicks? It doesn't bother you?