OtherGround Forums I think I got ”go-ahead” to cheat from wife today

Edited: 5/19/19 10:28 AM
8/22/03
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Short background; been together 8 yrs, two kids, good sexlife although alot less since kid nr two came. It has always been ”our thing” that I look at other women and we both comment on girls in the park or whatever but I havent cheated. Turned 40 a few years back and was open with the fact that I sometimes have thoughts of being single, picking up girls, etc but that I value what we have too much. Basically a mid-life crisis mini version. Few friends of us have split up and they are miserable being the old guy in the club, of trying to meet a man when youre a single mom of two etc. Anyway, we started talking about this again and she said ”ok, you can have an affair with a unknown girl, but you cant have a relationship on the side” meaning seeing the same girl more than once. Also, ”I dont want to know about it”. I asked her ”do you feel the same” and she claim she doesnt. I kinda laughed it off, and said ”well who wants my ugly ass anyways”. So OG brothers, how would you do; just forget about it, or act on it with the risk of the whole thing blowing up in my face (no homo). 

5/19/19 10:24 AM
8/21/13
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It's a trap.

5/19/19 10:28 AM
4/27/05
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She’s already fucking someone else 

5/19/19 10:29 AM
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You need to be faithful to her, or change your life so you can be with others. I don't care if she gave you a "freepass".  You have children together.  Don't be a scumbag.

5/19/19 10:29 AM
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My wife brought this up with me about this time last year. I was suspicious & refused. Turned out she wanted me to hook up because she was having feelings for one of her friends that she later acted upon. I think we are now about 2 months away from the divorce being finalized. 

5/19/19 10:31 AM
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Sounds like she has a guilty conscience 

5/19/19 10:32 AM
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topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

 

5/19/19 10:33 AM
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First two responses nailed it - it's either one or the other.
5/19/19 10:45 AM
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topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

This

5/19/19 10:49 AM
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Trap, dont take the bait or shes fucking a black guy

5/19/19 10:50 AM
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JoseyWales - 
topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

 


5/19/19 10:52 AM
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KSloane - 
JoseyWales - 
topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

 



5/19/19 10:56 AM
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topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

 

5/19/19 10:58 AM
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topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

Guaranteed

5/19/19 10:59 AM
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Next post: "Wife of 8 years is moving out..."

5/19/19 11:00 AM
8/29/09
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You didn’t get the go ahead. 

Youre getting set up. 

She wants you to say that there is no way you could be with another. 

 

You didn’t say that. That means, if she is out of your eyesight now, 85% chance she’s taking the pipe from Jamal as I type this. 

5/19/19 11:19 AM
8/26/18
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Jerome has already dropped pipe so feel free and get a sad handy from a stroll ho. 

5/19/19 11:25 AM
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nek -

Next post: "Wife of 8 years is moving out..."

This. Guys are so stupid.

You probably fucked yourself already

5/19/19 11:28 AM
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topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

Yup. It’s already over, my friend. 

5/19/19 11:31 AM
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kkmmnn - 
topteam71 -

She’s already fucking someone else 

Guaranteed


5/19/19 11:32 AM
7/2/09
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I feel like my wife and I see things the same way that you describe, OP.  Same age, two kids.  Of course, we're both old, ugly, hateful, cynical bastards, so there's zero chance.... ahhh shit, Jamal will fuck anything!

 

Good for you if you can enjoy life, but few people pull it off.

5/19/19 11:35 AM
8/22/03
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100% guaranteed she is not fucking around. Dont want to get into details but its not happening. 

5/19/19 11:37 AM
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TXEMC1 -

You need to be faithful to her, or change your life so you can be with others. I don't care if she gave you a "freepass".  You have children together.  Don't be a scumbag.

Man, good thing that morality is a well-defined line that you can just walk.

 

If both parties are happy and having a good time, I don't see a problem.

 

I think we both agree that sneak-around, cockroach-ey behavior is scumbag territory.

5/19/19 11:38 AM
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Lorenthz - 

100% guaranteed she is not fucking around. Dont want to get into details but its not happening. 


*pats your head

you sweet summer child.

5/19/19 11:40 AM
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