Member Since: 8/22/03
Short background; been together 8 yrs, two kids, good sexlife although alot less since kid nr two came. It has always been ”our thing” that I look at other women and we both comment on girls in the park or whatever but I havent cheated. Turned 40 a few years back and was open with the fact that I sometimes have thoughts of being single, picking up girls, etc but that I value what we have too much. Basically a mid-life crisis mini version. Few friends of us have split up and they are miserable being the old guy in the club, of trying to meet a man when youre a single mom of two etc. Anyway, we started talking about this again and she said ”ok, you can have an affair with a unknown girl, but you cant have a relationship on the side” meaning seeing the same girl more than once. Also, ”I dont want to know about it”. I asked her ”do you feel the same” and she claim she doesnt. I kinda laughed it off, and said ”well who wants my ugly ass anyways”. So OG brothers, how would you do; just forget about it, or act on it with the risk of the whole thing blowing up in my face (no homo).