Short story, my wife of 20 years became addicted to having sex with strangers. I know of at least 5 guys and one woman she had sex with. She's never come clean on just how bad things got. Many of you thought I was trolling. I wasn't. All this went down when we had two teen daughters in the house.
After some depression, suicidal thoughts, meds and a fuck ton of alcohol I'm in a better place now. But it has gotten me thinking about marriage.
Without getting into the details, I got FUCKED in the divorce. I live in a state where there is no fault assigned. So the fact that it was HER who was sleeping around meant nothing to the courts. All I got was a check for $11,000. The camp on a lake that my mother helped us buy and the business we ran. ( the business was more of a sentence than an award to me. It just means I get to work for the rest of my life and send her checks!)
Anyway.... Why do we even get married anymore? Why would you enter into a contract that is absolutely going to fuck you in the ass on the way out? Everyone KNOWS the courts favor women in these proceedings.
If you have not watched the movie "The Red Pill" go watch it NOW.
Anyway.... I know what some of you are thinking..
"Critical 13, MY girl and I found true love."
No you didn't, SHE found security in your ability to provide for her. Once you stop providing for her she is leaving you and you'll be sending her checks till you die. Fuck even if you ARE providing for her (We were WELL into the upper middle class) she is still going to cheat and leave you.
"Critical 13, I'm religious and our love is blessed by God. She wouldn't leave me."
Yes she will. You are retarded to think otherwise.
"Ok Critical 13, even if we get divorced, my girl is super cool and just wouldn't do that to me. I just know she wouldn't".
Yes she will. She's going to fuck you in the ass (financially) harder than you can possibly imagine.
"Hmmm Critical 13, you seem bitter"
Fuck yes I'm bitter. Look what happened to me. The only thing I can do now for some solace in this situation is be with my girls as much as I can and prevent YOU from making the same mistake.
We as MEN must end this outdated and unfair social construct. If you found a girl and she won't date you because you won't get married... move along. I'm currently dating a girl (also divorced) and she agrees, marriage is bad idea.
I'm back on my feet financially thanks to some good cryto investments in the past year. I have a house about 7 miles from hers and I see the girls pretty often. I'm depressed often but my mind doesn't go to those really dark places anymore. I still drink a fuckton, my cholesterol is sky fucking high, and last time my blood pressure was taken it was so high the nurse was aghast.
I'm 50. Don't make the mistakes I did. Never. Get. Married....NEVER.