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Edited: 2/11/19 8:53 PM
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This girl I've been seeing is on vacation and I haven't talked to her in a few days. I want to text her without coming across as needy. 

2/11/19 8:52 PM
6/21/13
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.I.

2/11/19 8:53 PM
8/29/09
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Butthole pic. 

Ask her if she’s hungry 

2/11/19 8:55 PM
11/9/05
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You just want to reach out because you're afraid she's taking vacation cock every hour like it's mandatory.

Don't text her.

2/11/19 8:55 PM
2/13/12
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“I’m guessing you can’t text and suck cock at the same time, why haven’t I heard from you since you left?”

2/11/19 8:58 PM
1/1/01
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How art thou m'lady? 

30 seconds later....

 

"please respond"

2/11/19 8:59 PM
7/14/16
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She is on vacation from life. You are in her life. She is therefore also taking a vacation from you. Don't bother her, let it play out and use what she does/doesn't do help you gauge if you are on the same page as her as far as where your relationship is at. If you NEED someone that wants to talk to you every single day, then maybe you need to consider this might not be the one for you.

2/11/19 9:00 PM
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Sup bitch,  how the vacay be? 

2/11/19 9:03 PM
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Lurker99 -

She is on vacation from life. You are in her life. She is therefore also taking a vacation from you. Don't bother her, let it play out and use what she does/doesn't do help you gauge if you are on the same page as her as far as where your relationship is at. If you NEED someone that wants to talk to you every single day, then maybe you need to consider this might not be the one for you.

I thought about this very thing, but wouldn't the same apply on her end? Meaning, if I don't text her, would she think I'm not interested? I feel like I've made it pretty clear that I like her and she seemed excited to go out when she gets back. I'm just not sure how to play it.

2/11/19 9:04 PM
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Jesus...

2/11/19 9:05 PM
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DeathTrooper -
Lurker99 -

She is on vacation from life. You are in her life. She is therefore also taking a vacation from you. Don't bother her, let it play out and use what she does/doesn't do help you gauge if you are on the same page as her as far as where your relationship is at. If you NEED someone that wants to talk to you every single day, then maybe you need to consider this might not be the one for you.

I thought about this very thing, but wouldn't the same apply on her end? Meaning, if I don't text her, would she think I'm not interested? I feel like I've made it pretty clear that I like her and she seemed excited to go out when she gets back. I'm just not sure how to play it.

Is this vacation with family or friends?

2/11/19 9:06 PM
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DeathTrooper - 
Lurker99 -

She is on vacation from life. You are in her life. She is therefore also taking a vacation from you. Don't bother her, let it play out and use what she does/doesn't do help you gauge if you are on the same page as her as far as where your relationship is at. If you NEED someone that wants to talk to you every single day, then maybe you need to consider this might not be the one for you.

I thought about this very thing, but wouldn't the same apply on her end? Meaning, if I don't text her, would she think I'm not interested? I feel like I've made it pretty clear that I like her and she seemed excited to go out when she gets back. I'm just not sure how to play it.


Overthinking it. You have the excuse of not wanting to bother her. She KNOWS you are sitting around living your normal life. If she was concerned with what you are doing, she would contact you, knowing she isn't disturbing anything as if she was there, she would theoretically be spending that time with you anyway. When she gets back, tell her you missed her and the time away made you realize how much you like her. Judge her in person reaction to that. If there is a genuine return to that, you are good to go. If she is like "Uh, Yea, me too!" You know it's bullshit, have fun and just dont get too attatched.

2/11/19 9:10 PM
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Altofsky -
DeathTrooper -
Lurker99 -

She is on vacation from life. You are in her life. She is therefore also taking a vacation from you. Don't bother her, let it play out and use what she does/doesn't do help you gauge if you are on the same page as her as far as where your relationship is at. If you NEED someone that wants to talk to you every single day, then maybe you need to consider this might not be the one for you.

I thought about this very thing, but wouldn't the same apply on her end? Meaning, if I don't text her, would she think I'm not interested? I feel like I've made it pretty clear that I like her and she seemed excited to go out when she gets back. I'm just not sure how to play it.

Is this vacation with family or friends?

Yes, with family.

2/11/19 9:11 PM
11/21/15
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B==D

2/11/19 9:13 PM
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Unless she's vacationing at Branson, she's catching some D

2/11/19 9:22 PM
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Ask her if she's hurtin' for a squirtin'

2/11/19 9:23 PM
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“Damn girl you know you want my sting.”

2/11/19 9:24 PM
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Text her this shit and her heart will melt. 

 

 

 

Are you retarded? Leave her be dipshit, she’ll either come home looking for you to tear it up or she’ll have the clap, who really cares at that point?

2/11/19 9:26 PM
1/30/10
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Are you fucking serious ? Dude you’re setting yourself up for failure ...she just went on a vacation and you’re freaking out about texting her and what she’s going to think if you don’t LOL 

listen , go on with your life and stop thinking about her or what she’s doing , this should be a lil vacation for you as well , a vacation away from her ...go out w your buddies have some beers and flirt w other women ...Jesus fckn Christ , how old are you?? 

2/11/19 9:32 PM
7/14/17
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Fight the urge to text her. Distract yourself by going out for some beers. See if she texts you first. If you're at all serious to her, it will bother her that you're not texting her 

2/11/19 9:42 PM
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Ok, enough messing around, don’t text her, but get started on the mixtape ASAP! Chicks love a great mixtape! 

Edited: 2/11/19 9:57 PM
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DON'T! You're not there for a reason. She's getting a mile of Jamaican cock right now so don't bother her

2/11/19 9:49 PM
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Use this time to practice holding a boom box over your head playing your song.  If nobody is home you can practice at her house.  

Change your screen name to Desperado.  She is on vacation leave her the fuck alone.  

2/11/19 9:49 PM
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OJTT-RayRay -

“Damn girl you know you want my sting.”

This 

2/11/19 9:55 PM
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She went on vacation without you. You are not an important part of her life. Balance her importance in yours.