OtherGround Forums What do I text this girl?

2/11/19 9:55 PM
1/14/16
Posts: 11021

She went on vacation without you. You are not an important part of her life. Balance her importance in yours. 

2/11/19 9:57 PM
5/30/09
Posts: 17681
Gugstanley -

Use this time to practice holding a boom box over your head playing your song.  If nobody is home you can practice at her house.  

Change your screen name to Desperado.  She is on vacation leave her the fuck alone.  

Oh man this takes me back to 8th grade. I feel in love with the town slut and I became a borderline stalker for a couple weeks. 

So glad I got that pain out of my system before hitting high school

2/11/19 10:01 PM
12/20/05
Posts: 50429

FAG

Edited: 2/11/19 10:02 PM
1/1/01
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OP:

2/11/19 10:04 PM
12/17/16
Posts: 646

Ok, I feel like I should add some context to the situation.

I've been out with this girl 3 times. Every date went really well, in my opinion.

The fact is, she's WAY out of my league. I don't know how I've been out on even one date with her. On one hand, I'm kind of expecting her to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." On the other, I feel like this is a great opprotunity to be with a girl I would normally never have a chance with. I figure I've been doing something right and I don't want to screw it up by being my normal, insecure self. 

2/11/19 10:05 PM
1/13/11
Posts: 18851
DeathTrooper -

Ok, I feel like I should add some context to the situation.

I've been out with this girl 3 times. Every date went really well, in my opinion.

The fact is, she's WAY out of my league. I don't know how I've been out on even one date with her. On one hand, I'm kind of expecting her to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." On the other, I feel like this is a great opprotunity to be with a girl I would normally never have a chance with. I figure I've been doing something right and I don't want to screw it up by being my normal, insecure self. 

Your old self would text her, don’t be him. 

2/11/19 10:05 PM
5/30/09
Posts: 17682

So you've never fucked her?

2/11/19 10:06 PM
12/17/16
Posts: 647
darkness66 -

So you've never fucked her?

Correct.

Edited: 2/11/19 10:07 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 88213
DeathTrooper - 

Ok, I feel like I should add some context to the situation.

I've been out with this girl 3 times. Every date went really well, in my opinion.

The fact is, she's WAY out of my league. I don't know how I've been out on even one date with her. On one hand, I'm kind of expecting her to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." On the other, I feel like this is a great opprotunity to be with a girl I would normally never have a chance with. I figure I've been doing something right and I don't want to screw it up by being my normal, insecure self. 

 

 

2/11/19 10:08 PM
12/4/06
Posts: 19986

Tell her you are in love with her and can’t wait for her to come back. 

2/11/19 10:22 PM
8/29/09
Posts: 13260
TheMMAn -

Unless she's vacationing at Branson, she's catching some D

Fuck you motherfucker!

We sling dick in Branson like it’s going out of style. 

2/11/19 10:22 PM
12/29/18
Posts: 225
DeathTrooper -

Ok, I feel like I should add some context to the situation.

I've been out with this girl 3 times. Every date went really well, in my opinion.

The fact is, she's WAY out of my league. I don't know how I've been out on even one date with her. On one hand, I'm kind of expecting her to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." On the other, I feel like this is a great opprotunity to be with a girl I would normally never have a chance with. I figure I've been doing something right and I don't want to screw it up by being my normal, insecure self. 

You’ve gone out with her 3 times, and you’ve managed not to scare her off yet. Don’t start now. If you text her you’re going to be like the other dudes she’s dating right now. They are all probably sending her “how’s it going” or “having fun?” Or most disgustingly “miss ya”.

separate yourself from the herd abd don’t text whatsoever while she’s away. Just reach out the day after she gets back. Otherwise, no matter what you say you’ll come off as needy.

 

if you do text her, tell us what you said and how it was received 

2/11/19 10:23 PM
4/13/12
Posts: 24441

Ask for dick pics

2/11/19 10:24 PM
7/24/15
Posts: 5585

Obvious answer; don’t text her anything. Just show up wherever she’s at and follow her around as much as possible.

2/11/19 10:24 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 88216

Send her this:

2/11/19 10:24 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 51379
"How's your trip going" seems so simple that it just might work.
2/11/19 10:29 PM
2/25/13
Posts: 24457

do the opposite of what you normally do

 

 

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2/11/19 10:35 PM
10/16/07
Posts: 20650
Bret Kavanaugh -
DeathTrooper -

Ok, I feel like I should add some context to the situation.

I've been out with this girl 3 times. Every date went really well, in my opinion.

The fact is, she's WAY out of my league. I don't know how I've been out on even one date with her. On one hand, I'm kind of expecting her to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." On the other, I feel like this is a great opprotunity to be with a girl I would normally never have a chance with. I figure I've been doing something right and I don't want to screw it up by being my normal, insecure self. 

You’ve gone out with her 3 times, and you’ve managed not to scare her off yet. Don’t start now. If you text her you’re going to be like the other dudes she’s dating right now. They are all probably sending her “how’s it going” or “having fun?” Or most disgustingly “miss ya”.

separate yourself from the herd abd don’t text whatsoever while she’s away. Just reach out the day after she gets back. Otherwise, no matter what you say you’ll come off as needy.

 

if you do text her, tell us what you said and how it was received 

Yeah, this is an easy call.  Just let her be, and then you have something to talk about upon her return 

2/11/19 10:37 PM
10/16/07
Posts: 20651
dios -

Are you fucking serious ? Dude you’re setting yourself up for failure ...she just went on a vacation and you’re freaking out about texting her and what she’s going to think if you don’t LOL 

listen , go on with your life and stop thinking about her or what she’s doing , this should be a lil vacation for you as well , a vacation away from her ...go out w your buddies have some beers and flirt w other women ...Jesus fckn Christ , how old are you?? 

This too...it’s important that you are interesting without her around and do something with yourself and your life that is not fretting over what she is doing.

 

behave like a man, not a middle school girl.

Edited: 2/11/19 10:38 PM
1/1/01
Posts: 88219

What were you doing while I was gone? 

 

"Hitting the gym and helping out all the city's homeless instagram models. Those poor young ladies didn't have anyone under the age 50 that would talk to them in person."  

2/11/19 10:39 PM
4/26/13
Posts: 6861

“u my gf now?”

 

 

it’s very important that it’s all lower case.

2/11/19 10:45 PM
4/26/13
Posts: 6863

Actually just send her this 

2/11/19 10:48 PM
4/26/13
Posts: 6865

Actually this first. 

2/11/19 10:52 PM
12/26/05
Posts: 40217

How about, "hey hows the vacation?"

 

Really? Oh that's sweet.  

 

Well hope you're having fun, see you when you get back.

 

 

 

Really, when did humans devolve into things unable to communicate with one another?

Edited: 2/11/19 10:56 PM
4/26/13
Posts: 6866
CavemanDave -

How about, "hey hows the vacation?"

 

Really? Oh that's sweet.  

 

Well hope you're having fun, see you when you get back.

 

 

 

Really, when did humans devolve into things unable to communicate with one another?

Since they’ve developed their understanding of cordial interactions lurking on the OG