'I find that aggressive', why do they do this? I recently had a run in with a girl at work who claimed my email was aggressive, when it was merely pointing out some facts to try and solve a situation. When we met in person to discuss it further, she pulled the aggressive shit on me, and said I was such a nice guy, normally, and that it displayed to her another side of my personality she had not seen. All this from some text in an email! I was immediately taken aback, because a) I never was aggressive, and b) I thought I was just being direct and firm to try and solve a problem. Either way I left concerned as I in no way would want anyone to feel that way.
I told a mate, and he said not to worry as it's just a tactic some people use to throw shit back on a person, but he couldn't stick around to tell me why.
Either way I showed a bunch of other colleagues and they didn't see anything aggressive being said at all.
Anyone able to shed any light? Am I dealing with a nutter? She seemed cool up until this incident.